She died.

I don't want to go to the funeral. I'm a big latina lesbian, and my whole family is catholic.

they don't know i'm a lesbian. but since i last saw them, i got a new dyky haircut and some lesbian tatoos, and i'm now 25 and they're going to ask why i don't have a boyfriend.

help! save me jebus!

also, what the hell should i wear? i asked my mum if i could wear my pants, but she really wants me to wear a dress. AND i haven't told her i'm a lesbian. this seems like a receipe for success.

Just go to the funeral.

It'd be pretty fucking selfish if you didn't, I think your mother or father will be more upset about the funeral of your grandmother than to care about your "dykey" hair. If they question you, tell them now really isn't the time.

Just wear a dress and deal with it.

If you cared about your grandma go to the funeral, wear something tastefull that you like, and everyone else can have a problem if they want to. It's not about them. If you cared just go and say goodbye and be dignified however that feels for you.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Were you close to her? If you really want to go for her, I'd say just go and screw whatever your family thinks.

And if you want to wear pants, wear them... doesn't matter if your mom has a problem with it, you're 25. She can't tell you how to dress. And its not like wearing pants automatically makes you a lesbian.

its your gramas funeral.....it doesnt matter what orientation you are just go to your fucking grammas funeral