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06-18-2006, 06:19 PM
|  | DANGAAAAAAAAAAA | | Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 173
| | | To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"
To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"
Isn't this the million dollar question??? It has to be... because i hear it all the time. "Where are all the nice guys?" "Why are all the nice guys taken?" "How come i attract all the assholes?"
Well let me clue you in on why you cant answer these questions for yourself.
1) You probably dont give the nice guy the time of day becuase he makes himself available and doesn't play the "game" so he isnt a challenge for you.
2) For some odd reason you like to be ignored, treated badly, disrespected in public and overall not taken care of.
3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.
For some reason most girls are attracted to the drama that bad relationships bring because it gives them a reason to be the subject of gossip among their friends for a time.
Another question is "He's such a great guy. How can he be with her? I am way prettier than her." Maybe you are prettier than her but he is with her because she gave him the time of day, wasnt a bitch to him, she didnt play any games and payed attention to him and actually wanted him because he is nice and will do all he can to make sure she is happy.
Well i hope this helped clear up those questions and if it didnt then im sorry. So if you really do want a nice guy then you should make every effort to be with a nice guy.  |
06-18-2006, 06:20 PM
|  | kind of a big deal IRL | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: slamdancecosmopolis
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| | | yeah we knew that. kthx. |
06-18-2006, 06:20 PM
|  | A GODDAMN SHAME | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: HEAD FUCK, ILLINOIS
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| | | someone got burnt. |
06-18-2006, 06:21 PM
| | kind of a big deal IRL | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: slamdancecosmopolis
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Originally Posted by sugarscar someone got burnt. | fi-yuh |
06-18-2006, 06:22 PM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
Posts: 13,309
| | | what a patronising little post that was.
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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking |
06-18-2006, 06:25 PM
|  | Mustard Tiger | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | i'm not a nice guy.
eat me! |
06-18-2006, 06:29 PM
| | in flights of fancy. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Ottawa
Posts: 7,080
| | | that was too long for my brain to read it, but I read the first few sentences and the last and all I have to say is that we all knew that. But if it makes you feel smarter, TYPE, type like you never typed before |
06-18-2006, 06:32 PM
|  | ***WWW.VIPERROOM.ORG*** | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: in my house.
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| | | [quote=dangergnosis]
3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.
that point is quite true but the rest is bullshit. |
06-18-2006, 06:46 PM
|  | a.k.a Madge Spammer | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Panama
Posts: 8,223
| | | that was a cute post and you are right. Humans are pathetic. We want what we can't have. I have this two friends who are attracted to me and they would be amazing boyfriends but I'm not attracted to them. What can I do?? and the guys I'm attracted to don't pay attention to me or they treat me like shit.
It's who we are. |
06-18-2006, 07:03 PM
|  | i'm with the band | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: down by the river
Posts: 1,925
| | | yeah we all know it but there's just not much you can really do about it |
06-18-2006, 07:14 PM
|  | she dances | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,874
| | | yeah, right. i'll make sure to remember that.
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then she dances skirt swaying in the half-light she dances white blossom in the black sky
'I need new clothes', she thinks, 'new skin, a mind I can bear to live in'. |
06-18-2006, 07:21 PM
|  | nowurshitmakesnosensefkr | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Houston, Texas
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Originally Posted by dangergnosis To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"
Isn't this the million dollar question??? It has to be... because i hear it all the time. "Where are all the nice guys?" "Why are all the nice guys taken?" "How come i attract all the assholes?"
Well let me clue you in on why you cant answer these questions for yourself.
1) You probably dont give the nice guy the time of day becuase he makes himself available and doesn't play the "game" so he isnt a challenge for you.
2) For some odd reason you like to be ignored, treated badly, disrespected in public and overall not taken care of.
3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.
For some reason most girls are attracted to the drama that bad relationships bring because it gives them a reason to be the subject of gossip among their friends for a time.
Another question is "He's such a great guy. How can he be with her? I am way prettier than her." Maybe you are prettier than her but he is with her because she gave him the time of day, wasnt a bitch to him, she didnt play any games and payed attention to him and actually wanted him because he is nice and will do all he can to make sure she is happy.
Well i hope this helped clear up those questions and if it didnt then im sorry. So if you really do want a nice guy then you should make every effort to be with a nice guy. | or maybe nice guys are hard to find because
a) 98% of men are pigs
b) two-thirds of those 98% pretend to be nice to either fuck you or fuck you over
C) also, if looking for a nice guy instead of a hot guy, why would you bring up your own amount of beauty? girls who really want a nice guy won't bring up their own.
so yeah.. shut the fuck up. |
06-18-2006, 07:24 PM
|  | disappearing one | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Scotland
Posts: 4,542
| | | I'm not convinced we're attracted to the drama in order to have something to gossip about with friends. Rather, we get into a relationship with good intentions on both sides, something goes baws-up (which it often does in relationships that fail, no?), and then we like to have a big fat whinge about it, a la "why do I attract the assholes?"
But big cheers for all the 'wisdom' you share, which undoubtedly comes from the bitterness of having the girl you want choose the 'asshole' over you. Have fun, ahaha.
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Deux hommes font une promenade amicale. L'un des deux porte un parapluie à son bras.
Il se met à pleuvoir. L'homme n'ouvre pas son parapluie et l'autre lui demande pourquoi.
- Parce que ça ne servirait à rien, lui répond son ami. Il est plein de trous.
- Alors, pourquoi l'as-tu pris?
- Parce que je ne pensais pas qu'il pleuvrait. |
06-18-2006, 07:24 PM
| | kind of a big deal IRL | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: slamdancecosmopolis
Posts: 2,649
| | | nice guys are my dad. despite freud's protestation to the contrary, i don't want to fuck my dad.
thank you and goodnight. |
06-18-2006, 08:02 PM
|  | give me the sickest one. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: fox in the snow
Posts: 7,941
| | | WAH WAH WAH kr girls hate me WAH WAH
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the cave mouth shines
by pure force of will
i look down on the world
from the top of this lonesome hill
and you can run, and run some more
from here all the way to singapore
but i will carry you home in my teeth
-mountain goats |
06-18-2006, 08:05 PM
| | disappearing one | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Scotland
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Originally Posted by dirtyplotte WAH WAH WAH kr girls hate me WAH WAH | That basically sums it up.
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Deux hommes font une promenade amicale. L'un des deux porte un parapluie à son bras.
Il se met à pleuvoir. L'homme n'ouvre pas son parapluie et l'autre lui demande pourquoi.
- Parce que ça ne servirait à rien, lui répond son ami. Il est plein de trous.
- Alors, pourquoi l'as-tu pris?
- Parce que je ne pensais pas qu'il pleuvrait. |
06-18-2006, 08:37 PM
|  | dance into the fire. | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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I don't want a nice guy. |
06-18-2006, 08:41 PM
| | she dances | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | what's nice anyway? define 'nice'. go on.
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then she dances skirt swaying in the half-light she dances white blossom in the black sky
'I need new clothes', she thinks, 'new skin, a mind I can bear to live in'. |
06-18-2006, 08:42 PM
|  | stop stop stop | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Dagobah
Posts: 2,369
| | | sad thing is, there is NO chance boomboxboi actually wrote that himself. he's not nearly literate enough to form a neat little essay like that.
regardless of the fact that it was a crap post. |
06-18-2006, 08:49 PM
| | dance into the fire. | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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Originally Posted by W. Wanker sad thing is, there is NO chance boomboxboi actually wrote that himself. he's not nearly literate enough to form a neat little essay like that.
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