| To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"
To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"
Isn't this the million dollar question??? It has to be... because i hear it all the time. "Where are all the nice guys?" "Why are all the nice guys taken?" "How come i attract all the assholes?"
Well let me clue you in on why you cant answer these questions for yourself.
1) You probably dont give the nice guy the time of day becuase he makes himself available and doesn't play the "game" so he isnt a challenge for you.
2) For some odd reason you like to be ignored, treated badly, disrespected in public and overall not taken care of.
3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.
For some reason most girls are attracted to the drama that bad relationships bring because it gives them a reason to be the subject of gossip among their friends for a time.
Another question is "He's such a great guy. How can he be with her? I am way prettier than her." Maybe you are prettier than her but he is with her because she gave him the time of day, wasnt a bitch to him, she didnt play any games and payed attention to him and actually wanted him because he is nice and will do all he can to make sure she is happy.
Well i hope this helped clear up those questions and if it didnt then im sorry. So if you really do want a nice guy then you should make every effort to be with a nice guy.
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