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Old 06-18-2006, 06:19 PM
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To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"

To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"

Isn't this the million dollar question??? It has to be... because i hear it all the time. "Where are all the nice guys?" "Why are all the nice guys taken?" "How come i attract all the assholes?"

Well let me clue you in on why you cant answer these questions for yourself.

1) You probably dont give the nice guy the time of day becuase he makes himself available and doesn't play the "game" so he isnt a challenge for you.

2) For some odd reason you like to be ignored, treated badly, disrespected in public and overall not taken care of.

3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.

For some reason most girls are attracted to the drama that bad relationships bring because it gives them a reason to be the subject of gossip among their friends for a time.

Another question is "He's such a great guy. How can he be with her? I am way prettier than her." Maybe you are prettier than her but he is with her because she gave him the time of day, wasnt a bitch to him, she didnt play any games and payed attention to him and actually wanted him because he is nice and will do all he can to make sure she is happy.

Well i hope this helped clear up those questions and if it didnt then im sorry. So if you really do want a nice guy then you should make every effort to be with a nice guy.
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what a patronising little post that was.
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that was too long for my brain to read it, but I read the first few sentences and the last and all I have to say is that we all knew that. But if it makes you feel smarter, TYPE, type like you never typed before
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3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.

that point is quite true but the rest is bullshit.
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that was a cute post and you are right. Humans are pathetic. We want what we can't have. I have this two friends who are attracted to me and they would be amazing boyfriends but I'm not attracted to them. What can I do?? and the guys I'm attracted to don't pay attention to me or they treat me like shit.

It's who we are.
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yeah we all know it but there's just not much you can really do about it
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yeah, right. i'll make sure to remember that.
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To girls who say, "Why can't I find a nice guy?"

Isn't this the million dollar question??? It has to be... because i hear it all the time. "Where are all the nice guys?" "Why are all the nice guys taken?" "How come i attract all the assholes?"

Well let me clue you in on why you cant answer these questions for yourself.

1) You probably dont give the nice guy the time of day becuase he makes himself available and doesn't play the "game" so he isnt a challenge for you.

2) For some odd reason you like to be ignored, treated badly, disrespected in public and overall not taken care of.

3) Society these days says that women should be independent and self-sustaining and that you dont need a guy for anything. And most nice guys want to do all they can for you to make you happy because thats how they grew up watching their dad treat their mom and because of society you see that as weakness and it turns you off.

For some reason most girls are attracted to the drama that bad relationships bring because it gives them a reason to be the subject of gossip among their friends for a time.

Another question is "He's such a great guy. How can he be with her? I am way prettier than her." Maybe you are prettier than her but he is with her because she gave him the time of day, wasnt a bitch to him, she didnt play any games and payed attention to him and actually wanted him because he is nice and will do all he can to make sure she is happy.

Well i hope this helped clear up those questions and if it didnt then im sorry. So if you really do want a nice guy then you should make every effort to be with a nice guy.
or maybe nice guys are hard to find because

a) 98% of men are pigs

b) two-thirds of those 98% pretend to be nice to either fuck you or fuck you over

C) also, if looking for a nice guy instead of a hot guy, why would you bring up your own amount of beauty? girls who really want a nice guy won't bring up their own.

so yeah.. shut the fuck up.
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I'm not convinced we're attracted to the drama in order to have something to gossip about with friends. Rather, we get into a relationship with good intentions on both sides, something goes baws-up (which it often does in relationships that fail, no?), and then we like to have a big fat whinge about it, a la "why do I attract the assholes?"

But big cheers for all the 'wisdom' you share, which undoubtedly comes from the bitterness of having the girl you want choose the 'asshole' over you. Have fun, ahaha.
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nice guys are my dad. despite freud's protestation to the contrary, i don't want to fuck my dad.

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what's nice anyway? define 'nice'. go on.
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sad thing is, there is NO chance boomboxboi actually wrote that himself. he's not nearly literate enough to form a neat little essay like that.

regardless of the fact that it was a crap post.
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sad thing is, there is NO chance boomboxboi actually wrote that himself. he's not nearly literate enough to form a neat little essay like that.

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