god help you if u r a ugly girl but too retty is also a doom..everyone secretly harbours hatred towards the prettiest girl in the room...

discuss...........

luke.

what were you thinking?

lol

really. but this is no secret to him.

he's set to "away" right now.

i'm just dying to lol @ him.

oh please, i am not going to feel sorry for any pretty person for their prettiness. Uglies have it worse in life, FACT.. But I don't think anyone will harbour animosity for someone they have not even talked to unless they give off an arrogant vibe right off the bat. Actually pretty people will have more people drawn to them, wanting to associate with them, wanting to be in their presence, so a pretty girl with a pretty personality will always have people around them. It is a blessing, not a doom; if one knows how to use it well that is. Abstractor,you being a guy and all , do you suffer from a pretty girl syndrome?

what planet are you on?

they call it earth. Animosity is pretty strong, aaron. You might feel envy for someone you know NOTHING about, but even envy is flattering, not doomworthy.

i see a lot of it right here on KR.

I was talking about people you know NOTHING about, as in you have not heard a word out of their mouth (or typed by them). People here do have some impressions about each other.

itsa blessin
and acurse!
much like intelect!

you're blessed with both, honey nipples

No, intellect is a curse if you do not use it well, same with beauty. So you really are going to come to the NYC meetup?

well they wernt my words i was quoting ani difranco...i just actually agree with it...ppl hate the ugly ppl but they also hate the beautiful....it's true and it relevant

ani <3

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it is not about automatic hate though. It is about beauty opening more doors and offering more opportunities in life, which is a fact. If one uses their blessing, whether it be intellect or beauty, wisely, then it WILL give them a lot of things in life that those who lack those things might not ever come close to that easily. So I don't believe in the "doomed" part. And like I said, people usually ENVY the beauty and want to be near them or want to own them (in case of material things that are aesthetically appealing); it would only be HATE if the said beautiful person acts like a cunt.

you take things way too seriously..jealosy in many forms is hate...not the nasty hatered for example...but alot of ppl envy others and will critise others through jealousy and if u ask me that is a form of hatred...

it is not taking things "seriously". It is putting thought into what the hell I am saying. OK, you take jealousy as a form of hatred, I consider it envy and i do not view it as hatred, therefore case closed as unresolved.

if u say so....your opinion isn't validated here......i know what u r sayin but i happen to not agree...im with ani all the way so nerrrrrrrrrr

I'm going to agree with those who say that being pretty does have its drawbacks.

I'm no Cindy Crawford/Angelina Jolie/whoever you consider to be the most beautiful woman in the world (unless you're my boyfriend, who truly believes that I am the most beautiful woman in the world), but in school I was always prettier than most of the other girls, and in a distinct way; my beauty is naturally unique and I don't look like the run of the mill "pretty girls," but I don't look like the girls who try to look "unconventionally pretty" either (those "emo/scene" types, or "goth" types). My beauty was my own, and all of the other pretty girls were either generic conventional pretty or generic unconventional pretty.

I'm a sweet, down to earth person so I never had any enemies, but recently a girl my boyfriend diddled right before we got together stepped in and to say the VERY least, tried to ruin our relationship and break us up. She made life a living HELL for me for months, and with her it always boiled down to "Is she prettier than me?" which everybody agrees that I am as this girl is quite unattractive (though she tries to be "unconventionally" pretty, nature can be a bitch and even when she tries really hard, she's only average), which made her call me "ugly" and act like a middle schooler out of jealousy.

Things passed the point of me being able to laugh it off as this girl was also truly insane.

She's now nipped in the bud, but let this story be a testament to the fact that prettiness has an assload of disadvantages.

actually it is not a testament to that at all. Just a typical story of high school love triangle. She is not jealous of your prettiness; she is jealous because you have the guy she wants. Her negative emotions towards you have a source other than how you look.