my cousin says i saved her life once by helping her get out of a dead end relationship. but i honestly don't even remember what i did, and i know i wasn't trying to do anything but show her a good time.

yes, i do this constantly. not so much because i want to save them just to do a good thing, moreso so i dont have to think about saving myself.

the odds of saved to not svaed or fucked up even more seems about 50/50.

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Originally Posted by dotty wokker and laugh about it all you want. you wont be laughing when my friends dos the fuck out of your hard drive.

i think it depends.

if the person is looking to be saved, then yes. you could possibly have a part in doing so. but like it has already been said by rat face, you can't even help somebody who isn't willing to give up what's killing them.

I used to think I could. Now I am more realistic. I will still lend neverending support, warmth, compassion, I'll be there when no one else will.... I've had a couple of close friends go through really, really bad times. One in particular told me after the fact, that my calling her several times a day to check on her and the love I showed in general, really helped her through that time. I just did because I cared.

Plus, if you ever need someone to be with you while you're out drinking shots, I'll be there. Shot for shot.

this is the best kind of friend to have.