Alright, a couple of weeks ago, a good friend of mine was killed in a car accident.
I dreampt about her last night, but it was so clear. Usually I have wicked trippy, outta control dreams but this one was so ..regular.


We were sitting on a bench, but we were in my room. She came up and sat next to me and was like 'whats up girlfriend?' (hahaha shed always say that to me in the weirdest voice) and she didnt know she was dead. We were wearing the same shirt, and I had my purse next to me just like how I fell asleep. I held her obituary card in my hand, which I keep in my purse anyway. I was kind of hiding it from her and she was like 'what happened girlfriend?' and I didnt know what to say. I was like 'You died in an accident' but she didnt hear me. So she asked me again. And I just replied 'You should talk to your mom. I dunno.' And she was confused and said she tried but she couldnt? And I hid my obituary card in my back pocket as fast as I could. Then she just asked me again, and I didnt answer. We just sat together, looked forward out into the graveyard shes buried in.


I want to believe that she came to me in my dreams. Has anyone else had a similar experience?

It just made me so upset that she told me shes tried speaking to her family and they cant see/hear her, and that she doesnt know what happened or that she was dead.

If things like this can really happen..it makes me so sad I didnt say anything or that I tried to help her. Maybe Im just too paranoid.

yeah...with both my grandparents

-when my grampa died the next week i had a dream i was on the computer and it turned green and he was talking to me....he was telling me it would be all right and that he was ok

-then when my gramma died in jan. i had a dream they were together and they were happy and they talked to me and we talked about stuff....

i do believe that deceased people can talk to you in your dreams...it was nothing my mind could make up

my bf's grandmother is essentially a vegetable. i have never met her, and i have only seen limited pictures of her. she's not dead, but she's not really "alive" either.

however, i have met her in a dream which was rather odd. i'm not going into the dream, since it was really ridiculous, but she reassured us that she was okay with who/what we were.

it made me happy but i'm not sure it was anything truly out of the ordinary (not that i don't believe it could happen).

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jordina that is just fucking scary. but it sounds real. god that must have been something.
it's sad that she couldn't go to her family though, maybe their minds are a bit closed off?
I've never experienced anything like that but no one I know has died since the 80s/early 90s so there's plenty of time.

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After my grandparents died (they died within 2 months of eachother), my family had a huge falling out and didnt talk to eachother for about 5 years. For the first 3 years i would have dreams once in awhile that my family was reunited and my grandparents were happy about it....they were dreams that were like everyday, nothing "dreamlike" about them.
After that, i had those dreams every single night for 2 years. They would end with my grandparents telling me that i had to get everyone back together. One at least a dozen of these occasions i would wake up and swear that my grandmother was sitting at the edge of my bed watching me.
One day my aunts and cousins walked into the store i was working in...long story short, we all reunited. I never had one of those dreams ever again.
It still creeps me out to this day.