I am working on some ideas that to experience love, you must be able to give up all resentment in your life. Beneath all anger and resentment there is fear. Fear of losing something in life. Whatever that may be.

The fear could be of losing self worth, financial security. family (relationships ) There are all kinds of fear.. I think while living in resentment we tend to treat the world around us with contempt.

So I am looking for some thoughtful respones on this subject.


Love me..!

Well there are different forms of love, just as there are different types of anger. Each situation is a bit different don't you think?

Desire for what you can't have, desire not to lose what you already have. Desire builds up resentment and fear... that's Buddhism.

Thanks Doll.. I am not sure I understand Budissm much. But what I was thinking if you can't forgive someone can you you really love them..Or anyone else. I was also thinking that resentment has a different angle that anger. It is more of I am pissed and I will get you back. So not being able to forgive keeps you locked in the mode of fear.

Devilish. I'm not sure I think there is a lot of different forms of Love or anger. I don't know that you can love a little or be angry a little.. Sure some of the forms may trigger a larger response or emotion. But is there really a difference.

Gov.

you a Buddist by any chance