i lost my dad 7 yrs ago he had a heart attack in his sleep.i was 19 at the time i think he was 56 or somewhere in that age bracket my mom is about to turn 69 and my grandma is about to turn 90.

was it expected not really however i heard he was complaining of stomach pains that evening at the bar,heres the deal my dad was an alcholic for maybe 20 yrs however he stopped being one when i was like maybe 9 like 3 or so yrs after his arthritis started however hed drink on occasion like maybe 4 tmes a yr then in the later 90s it seemed not at all some yrs but i remember him getting drunk atleast 1 other time in 00 and clutch his chest and then the night he passed away he was drunk once more and took his arthritis meds and was mad my sister was dating a married man.