when you can't stand someone, first you need to stop and ask yourself "why can't I stand this person? " and it's usually because you are just like that person. But still I'm puzzled because I don't feel I'm like her.

I just hate how loud she is. It's like everywhere she goes she has to make a show about anything and she is incredibly annoying. I can't stand that she's a fucking ignorant. I can't stand the fact that she thinks she is classy and looks down on other people but she is NOTHING BUT TRASH. She's worse than white trash. She is one of the most vulgar ladies I've ever seen. She's 21 and has a girlfriend and a 4 year old daughter. I mean, I'm telling you, she's trash on the dellusion that she is class.

This is weird but I can't stand the fact that she's getting fat. She is actually very beautiful, and curvacious, but there is a fine line between being a curvacios woman and a fucking COW. Well she definetely has her foot on the cow territory. She's not quiete there, but believe me she's getting there. Her boobs are MASSIVE and it doesn't look sexy.

I don't like the fact that she is so comfortable with this job, wich is an ok job. I roll my eyes everytime our boss makes open fun of her and she totally goes along with it. It makes me want to say "don't you realize he's making fun of you you fucking cow??? stop laughing, you are being made to look like an idiot" uigghhh.

I know all of this somehow reflects on me, but maybe in another area because I'm so not like that, I'm not loud, or vulgar or fat or comformist or anything like that.

I can't stand her. I feel so fake because she thinks I'm her friend, but oh well. Sorry for the vent.

she doesn't sound half as annoying as the woman i hate from my last job
try not to be so judgemental of her
doesn't sound like she is a threat to you at all

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should i choose a noble occupation
if i did i'd only show up late and sick
and they would stare at me with hatred
plus my only natural talent's wasted

well at least yu're not fat and vulgar, be thankful for that.

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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking

no she's not at all. deep down she's a good person but very trashy and annoying.

The problem is not really her, it's me. I'm mad at ME. If I had been a humbler and wiser person, I wouldn't have been fired from my previous job wich was AMAZING. I was such an idiot and I thought I was too cool for that job, and naturally I got fired, and ironically I was ok at it, I guess it was some cosmic karma or something.

And now I'm frustrated in this C LIST company, and it's frustrating becuase every day I'm reminded of that other company wich was total GRADE A.

I know this is going to sound bad but I'm surprised and how different both enviroments are. I don't think I trully belong to any of them but I certainly belong more on the other one.

My previous job, the office was very stylish and everyone working there was beautiful, or most of them anyway. My current office is beige and gray and everyone is ugly. I mean seriously.

My frustration comes from the fact that I'm here with people like her. Don't get me wrong, I don't feel superior or anything, it's just that we are not the same type of people, I don't belong here, and I hate to think that I ruined my career before it even began. I really hope for a second chance in the future.

I am!! lol. I know it sounds mean but I really like the way I was brought up and my background.

Is it even worth asking why this is in spirtuality/philosophy?

i dont know man, this seems like a case of some really backhanded, roundabout, feeling bad for her cause you like her.

you dont want her to ruin her attractiveness, you dont want her to be made into the idiot she always seems to allow herself to be made into. and perhaps you might like her in a more traditional way if her personality was allowed some restraint, if she wasnt so damn agressively expressive. its just like being embarassed for someone. extremely trashy people are just screaming (no pun intended) for attention. its the poor man's route to attention.

you obviously care. maybe because she just doesn't. and you see something in her that she doesnt in herself.


meh, i dont know. i cant relate really. the only people i can't stand through my entire 25 years are women who intrinsically hate other women and are ALWAYS COMPETING to be better, no matter who the other female is, its alllllllllllllways a fight to outdo, and you know, in those kinds of people, only the superficial counts. jealously and male attention are their FUEL. nothing is genuine, there is always a passive agressive slant, and they are absolutely incapable of telling anyone anything truthful to their face.

good news is though, after two of those bitches, i think i've filled my hating quota for another 5o years.

maybe you'll end up liking this girl, who knows..