sounds silly,but I've been living in a college town for a few years and can't seem to get a dare with a girl,guys are easy to run around with,but outside of friends(all my friends are guys)I'm not really interested in them,the majority of my ex girlfriends in the past either made the first move,or we were introduced,but that was in a different area
I don't know what to say or how to ask girls out in this town,of course past experiences have taught me that my gaydar is broken,so when I've tried to write notes or flirt with a lot of girls,9 times out of 10 their straight

in this town anytime I've tried to do anything,I get girls who say and act like their bi,but don't actually want to follow through with dating or having a fling with a girl,I also seem to get a TON of girls who hang around me all wondering if I'll make out with them while thier boyfriends/husband watches/joins,dammit,bi does not equal swinger people!

so how do I branch out and talk to girls more without coming off as creepy,or getting couples trying to look me up?I also have trouble here because I'm not butchy,but not super femme most of the time either,but the only lesbians/girls who date girls that people know about here,dress and act masculine,I do have a lot of exceptions,but I tend to go after more feminine types,here its not so much the dress that gets to me,but the idea that SO many take a full on masculine role,which is something I haven't been able to work with when I've dated guys doing that,much less girls

so,I'm lost,everyone in a college town seems experimental,but not solidly decided,I'm attracted to girly girls but my gaydars broken,most of the time as soon as casual conversation gets flirty,a girl will stop talking to me,is it the area I'm in,or am I just going about things wrong?anyone have advice?

well since it is a college town, does it maybe have a gay society?
that seems like a good point for starting off.

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And I want to play hide-and-seek and give you my clothes and tell you I like your shoes and sit on the steps while you take a bath...

yeah. join the gay clubs. every campus has them unless you go to like Mormon school. and even then, I bet they have one but keep it all hush hush.

also you if you know of lesbians who are dating people start hanging around them because they probably know people or where to find people, or when they break up you can swoop in and make a move on one of them. (kidding about the last part- but you can do that if that's how you roll?)

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Am I Pregnant?: The KR spinoff

oh yeah, have you ever seen the movie Higher Learning?

it's like such an awesome TV-type movie.

take college lesbian tips from that movie.

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Am I Pregnant?: The KR spinoff

Oh fuck yeah. I love that film. In a tongue-in-cheek sort of way. SO HARD HITTING.

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