A girl who is a friend of mine (she lives in Germany) Ive visited her and we regularly write letters back and forth and send little stuff with the letters.

Well in her last letter she revealed to me that her new "boyfriend" is actually a girl. She said she was a bit nervous telling me but she felt that she could tell me and not worry but still a tad paranoid because some of her friends at college ditched her. Some other pen pals from other countries she kept up with wont write to her anymore since they found out. She doesn't consider herself lesbian....not even bi before this, it just happened. It was totally unexpected but she's happy now with her.

Deal is she is totally bummed out about people ditching her because she's going with a girl and what could I tell/send her?? she's paranoid and her self confidense is down. She was a big Piscean dreamer before hand that wasn't so good at coping with anything so she's this nervous fragile little thing.

cool saying/affirmations/advice would be good.

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Its had to know what to say to your friend, without knowing what sort of a person she is - otherwise you just sound totally generic.

But try to let her know that not all her friends have abandonded her.
And those that have, probably wern't worth knowing in the long run anyway.

I dunno.

*goes to think*

haha YES, this was what I was trying to avoid, thanks for the reply unlike the 40+ jackasses that viewed but didn't bother.

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So does she call her partner a 'boyfriend' when it is really a 'girlfriend'? Do they take hormones and stuff? Or is it just a lesbian relationship?

Or does she just say "my partner"?

Just say that you're still friends with her & that you're cool with whatever decisions she makes.

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