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Old 09-25-2007, 06:43 AM
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Do you "get" what the opposite sex/orientation find attractive?:

Just wondering really. A lot of my gay mates find my (non-sexual) taste in women very strange, which I don't get as I don't see how they'd have any better insight into what's attractive to a heterodude than I would (most of them have a lot less straight male friends than I do, apart from anything).

So I'm wondering whether I really "get" what's attractive about women, or if I'm just weird, or what, and whether anyone else feels this way about it?
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Old 09-25-2007, 07:23 AM
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Oh fuck. I do not know. Do I care? Psh. A gay man admires the beauty of a female completely different from a straight guy. Do I look at male beauty in a different way to a gay man? Sure do!
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Old 09-25-2007, 09:28 AM
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what do you like that they find strange?
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Old 09-25-2007, 11:17 AM
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I don't know, they never tell me, and then they'll say someone like Lucy Pinder is attractive and I'm like "Uh... maybe?" because I really have no idea what makes her so special.
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Old 09-25-2007, 11:27 AM
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I have no idea what guys like in girls....

I guess maybe it's different for every guy?
but there are certain women I think are beautiful but all the guys I know think she's ugly.....I can't really think of one right now....but there's a lot of them.

oh. maybe Hayden Panettiere. Every guy is drooling over her these days and I really don't get it. she's like a freaking midget and she's not pretty at all. I mean, she's not ugly obviously...but I really don't get the appeal...
same with someone like Salma Hayek. (it's the boobs right? men are so stupid)
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Old 09-25-2007, 11:33 AM
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OK, other example: my dad says Dawn French is really pretty, and I can totally see what he's talking about, yet you can only get most dudes to admit this if you're on your own with them. I don't know if maybe it's something to do with that, like they go along with the "party line" on what's hot when they're in company.
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someone like Salma Hayek. (it's the boobs right? men are so stupid)


not a hotter chick in hollywood. full stop.
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not a hotter chick in hollywood. full stop.
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but I really don't get the appeal...same with someone like Salma Hayek. (it's the boobs right? men are so stupid)
I wouldn't consider men stupid for finding this woman attractive. It makes perfect sense. She is the embodiment of femininity & fertility ie. the full breasts and hips. The same reason men go ga-ga over ScarJo.
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It makes perfect sense. She is the embodiment of femininity & fertility ie. the full breasts and hips
not to mention the hip-waist ratio she has is to die for.
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Ophie, sounds like you have strong gender issues.
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Ophie, sounds like you have strong gender issues.
as always..
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I have no idea what guys like in girls....

I guess maybe it's different for every guy?
but there are certain women I think are beautiful but all the guys I know think she's ugly.....I can't really think of one right now....but there's a lot of them.

oh. maybe Hayden Panettiere. Every guy is drooling over her these days and I really don't get it. she's like a freaking midget and she's not pretty at all. I mean, she's not ugly obviously...but I really don't get the appeal...
same with someone like Salma Hayek. (it's the boobs right? men are so stupid)
Salma Hyek is stunning in my opinion. You think Britney Spears is hot, I don't don't get it.
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Ophie, sounds like you have strong gender issues.
I've got strong sexy issues, that's fo sho.

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theres nothing great looking about Salma Hayek. i dont like her looks
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Salma is classically gorgeous & just screams pure woman. Her boobs, while big, are also fake (though they weren't ever tiny to begin with).

Hayden is beautiful but her head is big in proportion to her body. Once someone pointed that out to me, I couldn't help but always notice.

What does height have to do with anything? Short girls can work it just as well...and they're not so gangly eh? (kidding...sort of. i'm petite, obv)
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I think height on girls can work any way. For example...

Short girls can be considered petite and cute and delicate and men are attracted to it.

Average height girls are average and can be just as attractive.

And tall girls can work their height, maybe because of their legs or weight or whatever, and all models are tall.

So whatever height a girl is works. I'm tall, 5'8", and I really like being tall but there have been times when I feel like a giant next to some short girl. But for the most part I like my height because I like being tall and I actually read somewhere that people respect taller people more (lol) and I think it's true. And in school people always assume I'm older.

Buuuuut, pedestrian, my brother calls me gangly It's a sensitive word haha.
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Is 5"8 tall? I'm 5"7 and I've never considered myself tall. Where's the dividing line?
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Is 5"8 tall? I'm 5"7 and I've never considered myself tall. Where's the dividing line?
Yeah I would say you're tall.

Anything above 5'6" for a girl is relatively tall I would think.
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