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08-22-2007, 11:08 AM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Gay marriage question:
And for once, it's not "OMG should gays be able to get married" or anything!
I'm just wondering, and hoping for some insight from people in the know, who takes whose surname? Does either of them change, or do they swap, or what?
Just kinda curious, wondering what people's experience has been. |
08-22-2007, 11:25 AM
|  | the blood is thicker | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Germany
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| | | i dunno but i think in germany you can either keep your name, one can take a double name, both can double or you can take either of both surnames. just like straight couples. |
08-22-2007, 11:29 AM
| | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Oh I know, I'm just wondering what "the done thing" is. Straight couples can choose to keep their maiden names or whatever, but if you don't choose to do that, the woman takes the man's name by default (I think; I don't actually know whether they ask you when you get married). With gays you wouldn't necessarily be able to do that.
I'd like to think that the registrar just has to try and guess which one is the "man". |
08-22-2007, 11:59 AM
| | the blood is thicker | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Germany
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Originally Posted by Ophiel Ophiuci  I'd like to think that the registrar just has to try and guess which one is the "man". | oh damn that's what i was going to say now |
08-23-2007, 11:36 AM
| | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Well, it's always fun. I do it with my friends all the time; you pick two people at random and try and figure out what they'd do in the sack. FUN FUN FUN. |
08-24-2007, 08:09 AM
| | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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Gay marriage question: 08-23-2007 05:47 PM misfitcult no one will ever want to marry you. haha. ALWAYZ THE BRIDEMAID
| Haha, what a dumbass. |
08-24-2007, 09:48 AM
|  | Custom User Title | | Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: aBOUT work an dtit, read thes escru=ipts
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| | | Hyphens?
For instance, My married name would be Constance-Van-Trundle if I married someone named Van Trundle, which I will as soon as you get your arse over to Canadia. |
08-24-2007, 10:03 AM
| | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Haha, Dan told me you were on the market again. Is this true, sugartits? |
08-24-2007, 11:59 AM
| | Custom User Title | | Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: aBOUT work an dtit, read thes escru=ipts
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| | | Dan's mouth moves like my asshole after chinese food. But yes, I am indeed up for grabs. Though grabbing isn't what i'm into, I'm more into furries these days. |
08-26-2007, 11:52 AM
|  | Is This What My Body Said | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Little Fury Hyphens?
For instance, My married name would be Constance-Van-Trundle if I married someone named Van Trundle, which I will as soon as you get your arse over to Canadia. | Your name is Constance! So you have a bit of teh gheyz! 
Please, sleep with me. |
08-26-2007, 01:11 PM
|  | saint or celebrity? | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: croydon, basically.
Posts: 2,860
| | | my uncles kept seperate surnames after their civil partnership. |
08-26-2007, 10:21 PM
| | Is This What My Body Said | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 9,386
| | | Sounds like a tea party dance. Civil partnership. How quaint. How... Brideshead Revisited. |
08-27-2007, 08:39 PM
|  | u bet i'll b ur boyfriend | | Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 930
| | | I would love to have a hyphenated last name, it seems so romantic <3 |
08-29-2007, 05:10 AM
| | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | I think I'd take a guilty pleasure in taking someone else's surname. My grandfather was big into geneaology, so I've always been very aware that I'm the last of my line. It'd be fun to see the name die out without actually having to die first. |
08-29-2007, 06:27 AM
|  | gotoffwivkeily | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the harbour
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| | | Does gay marriage = visa for there country?
I'm very interested. |
08-30-2007, 11:34 AM
| | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Why, which country are you trying to fag your way into? |
08-30-2007, 12:31 PM
| | gotoffwivkeily | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the harbour
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| | | Any. I'm not fussed.
On topic, I wouldn't change my surname. |
08-30-2007, 08:11 PM
|  | sign your reps :( | | Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: space
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Ophiel Ophiuci I think I'd take a guilty pleasure in taking someone else's surname. My grandfather was big into geneaology, so I've always been very aware that I'm the last of my line. It'd be fun to see the name die out without actually having to die first. | I'm the last mine too, I have no brothers.
But he boy told me he wants to marry me and take my name when I am a big girl <3 |
08-30-2007, 09:26 PM
| | Custom User Title | | Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: aBOUT work an dtit, read thes escru=ipts
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| | | A friend of mine went from 'Thomas' to 'Van Poortvliet' (pronounced van-pooh-ort-vleet)
Her parents were visibly displeased. But whaddya gonna do? Not pay for the wedding?
And I will happily sleep with you Manhattan if you promise to play "love is a battlefield" and wear a sheep costume.
Re: ophiel's subject, I think the bottom would take the name of the top since it's quite likely enough sperm has been absorbed to change his dna anyway. In cases where those lines are blurred, there should be a fight to the death with onlookers shouting "Qapla! Qapla!" |
08-30-2007, 09:35 PM
|  | heavens to murgatroyd | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hospice for the terminally ill
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| | | never sell out for the cock. Take NO MAN's name. Psshaw. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | |
