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Old 08-01-2007, 12:01 PM
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Can men feel as violated as women?



I had gotten into this conversation with an ex of mine once. At the time I thought flat out,NO. I realized that I didn't really thought it through that much at the time.
So I'm curious to hear male opinions on this.
I mean both in a sexual and emotional way of being violated.
Can men feel that same feeling when a women has violated them and feel as emotionally distraught has a women does when a man violates her?
Opinions?Thoughts?

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Old 08-01-2007, 01:08 PM
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because of how society treats sexuality, a woman suddenly start doing something uncalled for sexually to a man would be a good thing. While vice-versa would be icky.

But yes, men can feel violated, especially if children.
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Old 08-01-2007, 02:53 PM
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YES In terms of physical/emotional abuse.

they just express their grief about it differently, sometimes in ways that are not so apparent. Sometimes he may not want to be seen vunerable and feel ashamed because of society and the view of the 'tough guy' and not being a '*****'.

There have been domestic violence cases where men have been physically injured by their spouse and lied and said they got attack by a stranger in the night down a street. This story actually happened and this is what he told the nurse at the hospital after his wife stabbed him.

They may sometimes lie or remain stoic about their feelings but deep inside it does affect them the same as a woman. I think more men feel internal anger though and more likely to express revenge in a violent manner than a woman, or will resort to it first..... they may retaliate differently or express themselves differently sometimes but I don't think they deep down don't FEEL less....

When it comes to SEXUAL violation....?????????
Other than when they are children...there arent many case studies I imagine? Rape in an all male prison...Im sure is just as violating. Its just the female on male sexual violation, its a pity there isnt much first hand evidense on it?

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Old 08-01-2007, 07:14 PM
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My boyfriend still hates his first girlfriend (nearly 10 years later) because he reckons she forced him into having sex with him. He didn't sleep with her (cause they were like, 14) so she told all her friends he was weird and frigid. So then he slept with her just so people wouldn't make fun of him. He claims to feel pretty violated by the incident.
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P.S. also, one in 9 men in the US will be raped (by another guy). Think they probably feel pretty violated.
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