..ok, maybe not that strong.but like, thinking of being straight makes me feel kinda ill sometimes.

and when i think of certain girls with boys i feel kinda sad, i can't explain it well but ill try..for instance, the girl that i was seeing told me that she prefers boys & it made me feel really sick and sad for her, like she's wasting herself.how could she wanna be with a boy after being with girls?

me and my ex discussed it lots, she feels that women have such a strong connection with eachother that a man can't provide because men & women think so differently.i dunno, i think my view is kinda skewed cuz i've had some bad experiences with men, but am i the only gay person who thinks like this? i don't wanna argue with people i'm just interested to see what you think.

No but it's just like some straight ppl feel ill when they think about gay ppl. Maybe your feelings stem from the fact that you can't bare to think of this girl with a man but she must have stronger feeling for men and maybe it's nothing to do with emotions.
You don't have an intolerance to straight couples do you or your just as bad as someone who's homophobic and i doubt you would find that acceptable.

i think in her case it's just denial tbh, i was just using that as an example
and i don't have an intolerance at all, i'm struggling to explain this and its coming out kinda wrong.
im thinking more of the emotional side of things than sex.like..i feel really sad when i see girls getting treated horribly by male partners who are just interested in sex or whatever, because they could get so much tenderness and affection from women.

As a straight female I don't agree. You can get affection and tenderness from men, if you find the right guy(s) that is, as well as a strong connection. I've felt the strongest 'connection' with an ex actually, stronger than to any female.

But I've never had a relationship with a female, so I can't compare, really.

I'm bi, and I feel really lucky that I am, because I feel like I'd be missing out if I was straight.