and I'm sick of it! Really, even people that would never normally have spoken to me about this kind of thing before. My grandparents generally avoid the subject, especially one set of them, but even they've been asking questions while I've been at home this weekend. I just wanted to complain about it and see if anyone else is being annoyed by the same thing.

My mum never, ever used to talk to me about relationships & stuff, though when I split up with my ex boyfriend in January she asked a couple of times "how are things with Joe?", "why did you split up?" and gave up when she didn't really get any answers. When she calls me in Nottingham she's always asking if I have anyone interested in me, or coyly enquiring as to if anything is happening, "relationship-wise" and this weekend, a few times too: "I wish you had someone to look after you in Nottingham."

a) I can look after myself, I don't need a man. And if I do want a boy to walk me to my hall to put off potential rapists and/or murderers (as my mother fears are hiding on every street corner, behind every dustbin) I can ask a friend. It is always, emphatically, a male, though she did ask today in a jokey way "you're not lesbian, are you?" when I told her I wasn't interested in anyone/there was nothing going on, quickly adding "not that there would be anything wrong if you were."
b) It's my choice! I don't get why they are trying to force me into a relationship all the time. I know it might only be her being concerned, but it's annoying.
c) it's always her asking if anyone is interested in me, and though I don't know if she's noticing that she does this, it's implying that I can't choose who I like myself, I can only pick from men who have already expressed an interest in me.

AAAAAAAAAAAAGH

Sorry, just wanted to rant and see if anyone else has the same problem.

No, I don't have this problem, however I would comment that with your funky elitist attitude I'm not at all suprised no-one wants to fuck you, If your pussys like your attitude it's prolly got teeth and bad breath

Hmmm...not totally sure now if this should really be in 'love and relationships'...

nevermind them, they are an asshole

edit: i was talking about tomsk btw...

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And I want to play hide-and-seek and give you my clothes and tell you I like your shoes and sit on the steps while you take a bath...

Vagina dentata, haha - damn right..

And my problem wasn't that no-one wanted to fuck me, it was that my mother, other family members and various family friends are obsessed with there being someone to do so. And FYI there are numerous people who do, it's just that I find them fucking irritating and have no interest in a relationship at the moment. I'm annoyed, if you read my post, at people who think I need one.

EDIT: I'm not scared of the sexuality forum because of Tomsk - in fact, it's normally my second home - it's just that I didn't notice that post until after I'd posted. But thanks for the moral support