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05-05-2007, 01:28 AM
| | i don't do crowds | | Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 16
| | | asexual? alright, i havent been back to kr for awhile  but i figured maybe you guys could help me out...
i feel like theres something kind of wrong with me in that i'm never "sexually" attracted to people and i never feel "turned on" at all. i get romantic feelings for people, but i always feel funny after anything happens in between us.
i havent been able to experience an orgasm yet and people have tried a bunch of different things.
any ideas? | 
05-05-2007, 01:34 AM
|  | Lets stay up | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Australia
Posts: 7,500
| | | what do you own? a vagina? or a penis? | 
05-05-2007, 01:36 AM
| | i don't do crowds | | Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 16
| | | vagina.
ha. | 
05-06-2007, 06:31 PM
| | ive got nothing to say | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 7,196
| | | maybe you should do crowds.
__________________ except i hate you. | 
05-06-2007, 07:43 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
Posts: 4,151
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Marin alright, i havent been back to kr for awhile  but i figured maybe you guys could help me out...
i feel like theres something kind of wrong with me in that i'm never "sexually" attracted to people and i never feel "turned on" at all. i get romantic feelings for people, but i always feel funny after anything happens in between us.
i havent been able to experience an orgasm yet and people have tried a bunch of different things.
any ideas? | well i dont really know what to tell you
my friend tried convincing me the other day that i am asexual, because i have only ever felt sexually attracted to one person. i feel that i am just picky. i also have never had an orgasm but i dont stress about it and i am not on any sort of quest or anything. if it happens, it happens.
but anyway, the only problem i have with it is that the one person i am sexuall attracted to is no longer in love with me and i must settle for random booty calls. otherwise i am pretty ignored.
the reason i even bring this up is because i think maybe you just havent found anyone worthy of your sexual attraction. i never had any desire to hav sex until i met this one guy, and now i could do it all the time with him, and he makes me feel very sexual and "turned on."
so maybe you just havent met the right person. hopefully when you do he'll stick around
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05-07-2007, 12:06 AM
| | i don't do crowds | | Join Date: Jun 2006
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Dithyrambic well i dont really know what to tell you
my friend tried convincing me the other day that i am asexual, because i have only ever felt sexually attracted to one person. i feel that i am just picky. i also have never had an orgasm but i dont stress about it and i am not on any sort of quest or anything. if it happens, it happens.
but anyway, the only problem i have with it is that the one person i am sexuall attracted to is no longer in love with me and i must settle for random booty calls. otherwise i am pretty ignored.
the reason i even bring this up is because i think maybe you just havent found anyone worthy of your sexual attraction. i never had any desire to hav sex until i met this one guy, and now i could do it all the time with him, and he makes me feel very sexual and "turned on."
so maybe you just havent met the right person. hopefully when you do he'll stick around |
thank you :] | 
05-10-2007, 06:41 PM
|  | salty milk and coins | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: fayetteville, ga
Posts: 706
| | | i have a prob where i can't be romantically attracted to people irl but think about (masturb8 to) getting donged all sorts of ways. i don't even know! | 
05-10-2007, 07:20 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 192
| | | Do you have depression? I'm like what you describe when I have it.
Or perhaps like Dithyrambic says you just haven't met the right person yet. | 
05-13-2007, 12:11 AM
|  | BIG AND HORNY | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Into the Pandemonium
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Surana Do you have depression? I'm like what you describe when I have it.
Or perhaps like Dithyrambic says you just haven't met the right person yet. | Depression might cause that.. being on antidepressants would definitely cause that.
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05-13-2007, 02:25 AM
| | i don't do crowds | | Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 16
| | | im not on antidepressants, but i think i may be depressed..? | 
05-13-2007, 02:29 AM
|  | I'm the hot one. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Dying 100 times
Posts: 6,660
| | | Asexual sounds so much more intrigueing than "I Can't Get Laid-o-sexual" | 
05-13-2007, 12:55 PM
|  | is anonymous | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: O' England, my lionheart
Posts: 2,253
| | | What's wrong with that exactly?
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05-13-2007, 01:13 PM
|  | Your mom loves me. | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: In the real world, as fucked up as it may be.
Posts: 516
| | | There are people like this ... my uncle is, and I was, too, but only after I broke up with my last boyfriend.
For me, I think I was just protecting myself. I don't want to have a rap sheet of dudes that I've fucked. I'd like to stick to single digits of men that I've slept with if at all possible. More importantly, I don't want a guy to just use me because I feel good, I want him to actually love me. So, for me, I know it's about defense.
What do ya think? Had any heartbreaks recently? Or has this been an ongoing problem since puberty?
Best,
G~L | 
05-13-2007, 01:17 PM
|  | be still, cody | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: port-au-patois
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Ruth Price Asexual sounds so much more intrigueing than "I Can't Get Laid-o-sexual" | lol yeah.
but it's great. you don't have to deal with 90% of what makes the world go round
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05-13-2007, 08:17 PM
|  | Hanoi "J" | | Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: seaside
Posts: 1,713
| | | Ive been asexual for about 1 year now. Pretty much since I became a smackhead. Its liberating. | 
05-18-2007, 07:50 AM
|  | I am a dixie chick | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,031
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by books ablaze Ive been asexual for about 1 year now. Pretty much since I became a smackhead. Its liberating. | rolf | 
05-18-2007, 09:16 PM
| | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 1
| | | I agree with some of the posts here, often how sexually active an individual is can depend on who you are having sex with. Many people can be sexually attracted to an individual and happily jump straight into bed with them, for others they may feel they need a deeper connection, and once they become comfortable with their partner they start experiencing more sexual feelings.
Also you say you've never had an orgasm, I would highly suggest buying a simple clitoral vibrator (if you do it over the internet it will arrive in a discreetly packaged box). Once you start experimenting with sex on your own you may find that you become more comfortable and open to the idea of sex in general.
Also remember feelings like this are totally normal, not everyone has the sex drive of a rabbit!
Hope this helps, and good luck! | 
05-18-2007, 10:04 PM
|  | say it ain't so | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: calgary, ab.
Posts: 532
| | | whoah
that's.. how I am. I think.
it's not really a bad thing though.. like.
ok. let me explain. I'm sixteen years old. I never think about "that kind of stuff." this enables me to get alot of shit done.
I dont see it as a problem, really (yet. haha).
It's probably jsut a phase though.
so, I guess I'm trying to say... I hear ya?
ok. that's enough personal stuff for the internet for one day. (or one year..) | 
05-20-2007, 09:41 AM
|  | bluebirds | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: at the tragedy sale
Posts: 2,317
| | Quote:
Originally Posted by murphy. whoah
that's.. how I am. I think.
it's not really a bad thing though.. like.
ok. let me explain. I'm sixteen years old. I never think about "that kind of stuff." this enables me to get alot of shit done.
I dont see it as a problem, really (yet. haha).
It's probably jsut a phase though.
so, I guess I'm trying to say... I hear ya?
ok. that's enough personal stuff for the internet for one day. (or one year..) | Whoa, I thought you were way older than that from your pictures? Like my age or older? (I'm almost 19 and not happy about it  )
Btw marin, I know what you mean too. I worry that I don't have an interest in that kind of thing, but it probably does mean i get more stuff done. But then I waste time worrying about how abnormal I am. It goes both ways. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode |
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