alright, i havent been back to kr for awhile but i figured maybe you guys could help me out...

i feel like theres something kind of wrong with me in that i'm never "sexually" attracted to people and i never feel "turned on" at all. i get romantic feelings for people, but i always feel funny after anything happens in between us.

i havent been able to experience an orgasm yet and people have tried a bunch of different things.

any ideas?

what do you own? a vagina? or a penis?

vagina.
ha.

maybe you should do crowds.

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except i hate you.

well i dont really know what to tell you
my friend tried convincing me the other day that i am asexual, because i have only ever felt sexually attracted to one person. i feel that i am just picky. i also have never had an orgasm but i dont stress about it and i am not on any sort of quest or anything. if it happens, it happens.
but anyway, the only problem i have with it is that the one person i am sexuall attracted to is no longer in love with me and i must settle for random booty calls. otherwise i am pretty ignored.

the reason i even bring this up is because i think maybe you just havent found anyone worthy of your sexual attraction. i never had any desire to hav sex until i met this one guy, and now i could do it all the time with him, and he makes me feel very sexual and "turned on."

so maybe you just havent met the right person. hopefully when you do he'll stick around

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dithyrambic does not:
have a husband
have a child
fight over ice cream
care that you dont know who she is.

thank you :]

i have a prob where i can't be romantically attracted to people irl but think about (masturb8 to) getting donged all sorts of ways. i don't even know!

Do you have depression? I'm like what you describe when I have it.

Or perhaps like Dithyrambic says you just haven't met the right person yet.

Depression might cause that.. being on antidepressants would definitely cause that.

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Juices like wine, like the blood in the sands.

im not on antidepressants, but i think i may be depressed..?

Asexual sounds so much more intrigueing than "I Can't Get Laid-o-sexual"

What's wrong with that exactly?

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I'm Squarepusher, and I approved this message.

There are people like this ... my uncle is, and I was, too, but only after I broke up with my last boyfriend.

For me, I think I was just protecting myself. I don't want to have a rap sheet of dudes that I've fucked. I'd like to stick to single digits of men that I've slept with if at all possible. More importantly, I don't want a guy to just use me because I feel good, I want him to actually love me. So, for me, I know it's about defense.

What do ya think? Had any heartbreaks recently? Or has this been an ongoing problem since puberty?

Best,
G~L

lol yeah.

but it's great. you don't have to deal with 90% of what makes the world go round

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they made soup out of my research turtles.

Ive been asexual for about 1 year now. Pretty much since I became a smackhead. Its liberating.

rolf

I agree with some of the posts here, often how sexually active an individual is can depend on who you are having sex with. Many people can be sexually attracted to an individual and happily jump straight into bed with them, for others they may feel they need a deeper connection, and once they become comfortable with their partner they start experiencing more sexual feelings.
Also you say you've never had an orgasm, I would highly suggest buying a simple clitoral vibrator (if you do it over the internet it will arrive in a discreetly packaged box). Once you start experimenting with sex on your own you may find that you become more comfortable and open to the idea of sex in general.
Also remember feelings like this are totally normal, not everyone has the sex drive of a rabbit!

Hope this helps, and good luck!

whoah
that's.. how I am. I think.

it's not really a bad thing though.. like.
ok. let me explain. I'm sixteen years old. I never think about "that kind of stuff." this enables me to get alot of shit done.
I dont see it as a problem, really (yet. haha).
It's probably jsut a phase though.

so, I guess I'm trying to say... I hear ya?


ok. that's enough personal stuff for the internet for one day. (or one year..)

Whoa, I thought you were way older than that from your pictures? Like my age or older? (I'm almost 19 and not happy about it )

Btw marin, I know what you mean too. I worry that I don't have an interest in that kind of thing, but it probably does mean i get more stuff done. But then I waste time worrying about how abnormal I am. It goes both ways.