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Old 04-27-2007, 05:52 AM
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Do you get gay bars for straight people?:

As in, a bar where you go if you want the casual sex?

Or is that pretty much what "normal" bars are?
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Old 04-27-2007, 05:54 AM
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As in, a bar where you go if you want the casual sex?

Or is that pretty much what "normal" bars are?
Its the night clubs with the RnB hitz and techno tunez that you have to go to.
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Old 04-27-2007, 05:55 AM
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That is what a large number of "normal" bars are. Total meat markets, but more widely accepted by modern society and shit meat markets.
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Old 04-27-2007, 06:03 AM
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Yeah, I kinda thought about it, and my entirely subjective opinion is: chicks still wouldn't put out, even if they were in an environment where it was totally acceptable to do so.

The idea would be that you go to the bar specifically looking for sex, and because everyone else there is doing the same, there's no reason to bother with the whole tedious courtship thing.

But I figure if they were capable, they would've done it by now.
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Old 04-27-2007, 06:06 AM
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try swinging clubs. you'll probably find lots of like-minded people there to share funny anecdotes etc
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Old 04-27-2007, 06:18 AM
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I'm not straight. I was just wondering if there was a market for these things. But I then I figure the only reason you don't already have them is because women suck.
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Yeah, I kinda thought about it, and my entirely subjective opinion is: chicks still wouldn't put out, even if they were in an environment where it was totally acceptable to do so.

The idea would be that you go to the bar specifically looking for sex, and because everyone else there is doing the same, there's no reason to bother with the whole tedious courtship thing.
Seriously, I don't know where you live, but I'd swear you are describing a very high proportion of "straight" bars. Do you not go to them? Ever? How could you be so naive? That fact it's almost exactly the fucking same is what makes the way many of them look down on evil fagnasties so extremely priceless.
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Yeah, I kinda thought about it, and my entirely subjective opinion is: chicks still wouldn't put out, even if they were in an environment where it was totally acceptable to do so.

The idea would be that you go to the bar specifically looking for sex, and because everyone else there is doing the same, there's no reason to bother with the whole tedious courtship thing.

But I figure if they were capable, they would've done it by now.
Go to an Australian bar than.
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Old 04-27-2007, 07:19 AM
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Go to an Australian bar than.
Good. I was hoping NZ bars weren't the only ones. I mean Ophiel you're usually so level headed and everything, but some of this descends to the levels of blind faggery of the "girls are delicate pretty princesses and could never be like boys" type. No offense, or anything!
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Old 04-27-2007, 07:22 AM
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I'm not straight. I was just wondering if there was a market for these things. But I then I figure the only reason you don't already have them is because women suck.
wtf? A lot of girls are willing to 'put out', not because they are sluts, but because its a choice they make etc. Did you try and sleep with a girl once and she turned you down, so there for ALL girls suck?
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Old 04-27-2007, 07:29 AM
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wtf? A lot of girls are willing to 'put out', not because they are sluts, but because its a choice they make etc. Did you try and sleep with a girl once and she turned you down, so there for ALL girls suck?
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considering the average clientele at aussie bars, dildo sales must be through the fucking roof.
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considering the average clientele at aussie bars, dildo sales must be through the fucking roof.
But in this age of internets secrecy, it's not as if you can even check. Bother.
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I mean Ophiel you're usually so level headed and everything, but some of this descends to the levels of blind faggery of the "girls are delicate pretty princesses and could never be like boys" type. No offense, or anything!
I'm not saying they're delicate princesses. I'm saying that they're evil manipulating harpies. (Tongue in cheek, but probably true too.)

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Seriously, I don't know where you live, but I'd swear you are describing a very high proportion of "straight" bars. Do you not go to them? Ever? How could you be so naive? That fact it's almost exactly the fucking same is what makes the way many of them look down on evil fagnasties so extremely priceless.
I'm aware that most people who go to straight clubs go there because they want something to have sex with. I'm also aware that, despite this, they feel obliged to pretend they're there for some other reason. And I blame chicks.

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wtf? A lot of girls are willing to 'put out', not because they are sluts, but because its a choice they make etc. Did you try and sleep with a girl once and she turned you down, so there for ALL girls suck?
Haha, I don't think I ever suggested women were sluts if they put out. I'm saying that, if they do want sex as much as men, they have a very strange way of showing it.

I was being tongue in cheek in the sense that I don't think all women suck period. Not wanting to have sex with just anyone, wanting some kind of emotional attachment or whatever isn't actually a sign of suckitude per se. But in this context, it's just not really appropriate.
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I'm aware that most people who go to straight clubs go there because they want something to have sex with. I'm also aware that, despite this, they feel obliged to pretend they're there for some other reason. And I blame chicks.
I'm all old and in a relationship now, but this is....not how I remember it. At all.
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I'm aware that most people who go to straight clubs go there because they want something to have sex with. I'm also aware that, despite this, they feel obliged to pretend they're there for some other reason. And I blame chicks.
Seriously, this is not always the rule. In plenty of bars this would very much be the exception.
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Maybe it's just Northampton. I really hope it is, and it might explain why this place is full of tossers. Most of the bars here just seem to be bleach blond chicks getting dudes in polo shirts to buy them drinks and then crying outside.

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