Just wondering.. Talking to a friend the other day, she said that she has never slept with a guy and she is 100% gay. Thats lovely and all, but like what if ya know? So..

If you are a lesbian, have you slept with a male before? And if you are a gay man, have you slept with a female before? I just find this interesting.

i've never slept with a boy.
but i'm still pretty young.

Would you consider it? Are the slightest bit interested?

no im not to be honest
but i dunno how ill feel in the future
maybe one day ill wanna try it
i doubt it though, i love ladies

I haven't slept with a woman. I know it sounds strange, but I just don't need to. At one point in my life, when I was spotty and desperate and depressed, I might have experimented with women if it had been offered, but it wasn't, so I didn't. I won't claim that I'm so much surer of my sexuality now, but I know what I'm attracted to, and I don't particularly feel the need to pursue something I'm not attracted to. I know that sex is just kind of a thing, and won't lead me to some promised land, so I don't feel the need to try out different kinds of sex.

As for the "what if" angle, it applies to straight people too, and yet no-one particularly thinks anything of it if they don't pursue it. You could argue there's less pressure on them to deviate than there is on a homo to "conform", but even so, I don't see it as so different. If you're not attracted to something/someone, I don't think anyone's really in any better position to know that than you.

In summary: I don't fancy ladies enough to pursue them, so I'd only go with one if it was really convenient and there weren't any dudes around to remind me that I can always just have a wank later. My experience hasn't been that ladies generally go around offering themselves to people, so I don't think it'll ever happen, and I won't feel too bad if it does or doesn't.