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04-11-2007, 11:24 AM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Exs dating exs: It's not a uniquely gay issue, but it's a damn sight more likely to happen to us than teh str8z0rz, so:
anyone experienced this? any amusing stories? | 
04-11-2007, 11:26 AM
|  | give me the sickest one. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: fox in the snow
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| | | thats so weird. i just typed about dating the ex gf of my ex bf
and it was unholy and wrong in so many ways. she dragged me around like a lame dog on a leash. bad juju
__________________ When I awoke, the Dire Wolf
Six hundred pounds of sin
Was grinning at my window
All I said was "Come on in".
Grateful Dead | 
04-11-2007, 11:46 AM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | That's what made me think of it, actually.
I've had it a couple of times, and fortunately I've managed to more or less not date psychonutjobs, so it's been okay, but it's still kind of awkward somehow, like it's impossible to imagine them lying in bed together talking about anything other than the lowpoints of my sexual technique. | 
04-11-2007, 11:54 AM
|  | give me the sickest one. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: fox in the snow
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| | we did talk about kenne. and we werent being nice. 
__________________ When I awoke, the Dire Wolf
Six hundred pounds of sin
Was grinning at my window
All I said was "Come on in".
Grateful Dead | 
04-11-2007, 12:13 PM
|  | standing on the beach.... | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: six feet under
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| | | i'm in a little pickle rigth now.
i've been kinda seeing the ex of an aquaintance, they recently broke up so this is all hush hush. he's also a former teammate of my ex...who's been trying to get back togther with me.
drama.
__________________ the power of negative thinking | 
04-16-2007, 09:43 AM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | It's kinda weird, most of the time dudes I know just deal with it, because they see it is kinda inevitable if you're on the scene and dating within a much smaller pool of people than the heteroids. But then every now and then one of them will have this ridiculously over-dramatic spazz about how awful it is that someone had sex with their ex, and it's just really hard to take it seriously.
Actually, thinking about it, it's pretty much just one guy who does that.
I dunno, is it a good thing to deal with stuff like that rather than getting wound up about it, or is it just a sign that we're all dead inside and just playing at dating? | 
04-19-2007, 03:00 PM
|  | McLovin | | Join Date: Apr 2007
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Ophiel Ophiuci I dunno, is it a good thing to deal with stuff like that rather than getting wound up about it, or is it just a sign that we're all dead inside and just playing at dating? |
I think it's natural to feel paranoid about them talking about you (the mutual ex), and I guess it's pretty much inevitable that they do, but then again - why should you give a damn what they say about you? You broke up with both of them - good riddance, right? If they're both douchebags, they can make eachother miserable while you get on with your life.
As for hurt feelings and heartache, I guess that's inevitable as well, but you have no choice but to deal with it, unless you have a chance of getting them back or whatever. | 
04-19-2007, 03:05 PM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by TheEmpress I think it's natural to feel paranoid about them talking about you (the mutual ex), and I guess it's pretty much inevitable that they do, but then again - why should you give a damn what they say about you? |
You don't know what I did. | 
04-19-2007, 09:48 PM
|  | Phil Goff | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Westport, New Zealand
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Originally Posted by Ophiel Ophiuci You don't know what I did. | Then you must tell all. Quickly! There is a ginge kitten annoying me.
__________________ Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.
I escaped somehow. Let's go actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter | 
04-20-2007, 05:10 AM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | Haha, nah, sorry, I was just joshing. I don't think I did anything particularly awful to those two dudes. | 
04-21-2007, 02:27 AM
|  | Phil Goff | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Westport, New Zealand
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Ophiel Ophiuci Haha, nah, sorry, I was just joshing. I don't think I did anything particularly awful to those two dudes. | Shame.
__________________ Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.
I escaped somehow. Let's go actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter | 
04-21-2007, 02:51 AM
|  | Occam's chainsaw | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: goin down in a blaze of glory
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by bort Shame. | ya, I want my money back. 
(full refund)
__________________ Quote:
Originally Posted by Sophia_ my wife called me an asshole ~~carefulcarpenter | | 
04-21-2007, 02:57 AM
|  | Phil Goff | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Westport, New Zealand
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Originally Posted by herekitty ya, I want my money back. 
(full refund) | Yes plz.
__________________ Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.
I escaped somehow. Let's go actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter | 
04-21-2007, 07:17 AM
|  | #1 cunt-kicker-in | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northampton, UK:
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| | | There's plenty of other retarded shit I did with dudes though. They just haven't ended up dating. IT'S NOT MY FAULT :cry: | 
04-22-2007, 11:28 PM
|  | ....... | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Los Angeles
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| | | it totally grosses me out...its like incest.
never happened to me though....just a lot of friends i know
thats why i date straight girls | 
04-23-2007, 07:09 PM
|  | Phil Goff | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Westport, New Zealand
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Originally Posted by Ophiel Ophiuci There's plenty of other retarded shit I did with dudes though. They just haven't ended up dating. IT'S NOT MY FAULT :cry: | If you don't share, how can we judge you? Hurry up!
__________________ Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.
I escaped somehow. Let's go actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode |
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