turns out my exboyfriend is gay.
he's just realized this. he comes from a VERY STRICT religious family, who're in no way ever going to tolerate the gayness. his friends are the same, infact the 6-7 years i've known them "fag" is probably their most commonly used word.

he's already withdrawn from college, let out in his apartment lease, and is selling his car -- he's talking seriously about killing himself, and saying he's sorry, but he can't BE gay -- it won't work out, but that he is.

in all honesty, it WONT work out, he'll get shunned and abanadoned by everyone around him, except maybe me.

WHAT THE HELL do you tell someone in this situation, other than "it's okay to be gay"?????

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uhm really though. my cell phone got stolen this morning, so i cant even call any of my gays for advice.

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I thought this thread would be heaving by now

oh my fucking god. you need to write a graphic novel about your dealings with this boy.

i dont know what kind of advice to give here at all. but then, my recent break-up with a lez has disillusioned me.

good luck.

i really need to know where tallulah went.