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View Poll Results: did your marriage change after you had children? | |
yes - in a good way
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yes - in a bad way
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nope - no change at all
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05-30-2006, 12:26 PM
|  | spliff ninjacat | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the doobie room
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| | | thank you for your reply, veronicafever.
you really put things into a new light for me.
you are putting me at ease, i keep using my brother & sis-in-law as a comparison and i really shouldn't be doing that.
they are not ALL couples!
they are a completely different couple compared to my husband and i.
what i really should be doing is just focusing on us, our relationship and how WE would be with children.
i am almost 26, my husband is 27 and i do not think we will be having children anytime soon.
maybe in 5 years or so...we shall see.
on the other hand, my brother and his wife had a HUGE talk yesterday.
they are getting along a lot better now.
i think they just had to have a huge blow-up and talk things over.
i feel a lot better now, i don't want to see anything bad happen to them, i love them both to pieces.
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05-30-2006, 03:55 PM
|  | moo | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuzI0ySlcT4
Posts: 229
| | i'm so glad they're talking, i hope things work out for them. maybe they can make the most of you staying with them and let you look after the kids for a while so they can get some time for the 2 of them  (depending how old the kids are and if that's practical)
and congratulations on your marriage btw, i hope you and your husband have a wonderful life together! |
05-30-2006, 09:43 PM
| | playing dead | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: never never land
Posts: 49
| | | without madison, my r'ship with my hubby was more of an easy going r'ship. we would go out to parties together or sometimes we go to the movies, we were more like teenagers before we had madi. but as soon as i got pregnant, things changed. we stayed home more often, rent a movie or two, sometimes even more and just have a simple movie marathon at home. we would cook together, do the laundry together, go to the grocery together.. did everything together. it is so much fun! when madi came into this world, life just got so much better, even if most of the time madison would give us sleepless nights. lol. my life with him when madi came just got better. even more sweeter!
so i dont think every couple is like your brother and his wife. it really depends on how you want to handle each other. i have always been a very proud girl, but this time i make sure that my love is greater than my pride. congratulations on your marriage! i wish you and your husband the best of everything!
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05-30-2006, 09:44 PM
|  | some kind of wonderful | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: life in the fast lane
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Originally Posted by bitchgoddess without madison, my r'ship with my hubby was more of an easy going r'ship. we would go out to parties together or sometimes we go to the movies, we were more like teenagers before we had madi. but as soon as i got pregnant, things changed. we stayed home more often, rent a movie or two, sometimes even more and just have a simple movie marathon at home. we would cook together, do the laundry together, go to the grocery together.. did everything together. it is so much fun! when madi came into this world, life just got so much better, even if most of the time madison would give us sleepless nights. lol. my life with him when madi came just got better. even more sweeter!
so i dont think every couple is like your brother and his wife. it really depends on how you want to handle each other. i have always been a very proud girl, but this time i make sure that my love is greater than my pride. | married. wtf is this. if you dont start talking to me more, im going to....well, i dont know what yet, but im not happy about this!   |
05-30-2006, 10:05 PM
| | playing dead | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: never never land
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Originally Posted by Jaded married. wtf is this. if you dont start talking to me more, im going to....well, i dont know what yet, but im not happy about this! |
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