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Old 09-21-2006, 10:26 PM
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Single Moms Support Thread

I thought there should be a thread here where single moms could come to let out their frustrations or talk about what they like about being the only parent.

Personally, I'm more happy as a single mom then when I was married. I was always the one making ends meet anyways, so now it's easier without one more (very annoying, destructive ) person to support. That and I can raise my daughter how I see fit instead of having to compromise with my now ex's wacked out insecurities. But it is hard in the fact that I rarely get breaks now. Like for instance sometimes my daughter wakes up really early, and now I have no one to trade off with for that. Or that going grocery shopping used to be my time to zone out, but now I have a toddler grabbing stuff from anywhere within reach. But then again, it's better than being forced to watch wrestling.
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i think this is an excellent idea and im making it a sticky.

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im pregnant. just wanted to say it cuz there's nowhere else i could write it in this "prenancy and parenting" section
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Personally, I'm more happy as a single mom then when I was married. I was always the one making ends meet anyways, so now it's easier without one more (very annoying, destructive ) person to support.
Did he bother to work??? Was he like a second child? That really annoys the fuck out of me when they are...
They say single mums cant do it all, have the energy to work and look after house and kids, how are you managing? I applaude any woman that can pull it off.
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Old 11-28-2006, 09:03 PM
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Did he bother to work??? Was he like a second child? That really annoys the fuck out of me when they are...
They say single mums cant do it all, have the energy to work and look after house and kids, how are you managing? I applaude any woman that can pull it off.
Yeah he worked, when I found the job listing, and until he got fired. I stopped calling him a second child because children are a blessing, he was more like one of those 185 pound tumors that you see in the world record books! My attorney was the best surgeon ever!

I'm just fine, better than ever. I'm very lucky that I have a family that has helped me and supported me through this (very, very fucking lucky). My heros too are the single moms who don't have anyone, but yet they get by, get the bills paid and keep their kids fed and clothed.
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Old 11-28-2006, 09:14 PM
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im pregnant. just wanted to say it cuz there's nowhere else i could write it in this "prenancy and parenting" section
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fuck single moms, they got knocked up and were dumb ... no apprecaition for those dirty whores
you jackass. i'm a single mom now. I didn't just get knocked up. I was married and now I'm not.
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btw thank you for this thread. i'm gonna need it. I've only been a single mom (of three) for about 4 months now and I still havent really gotten a good routine or anything. it's stressfull.
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btw thank you for this thread. i'm gonna need it. I've only been a single mom (of three) for about 4 months now and I still havent really gotten a good routine or anything. it's stressfull.
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Old 11-30-2006, 09:13 PM
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btw thank you for this thread. i'm gonna need it. I've only been a single mom (of three) for about 4 months now and I still havent really gotten a good routine or anything. it's stressfull.
I'm here is you need anything. I don't know if a routine is possible, I think you just have to roll with the suprises that come.
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routines haven't really ever worked for me on a daily basis
but i do enjoy having a weekly routine where certain things get done on a certain few days of the week
the other days consist of unscheduled stuff, w/ a reasonable bedtime for my son really being the only constant most of the time
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i know a single mom who is 31 and has 3 boys, ages 6,7,and 8! i have no idea how she does it.
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I thought there should be a thread here where single moms could come to let out their frustrations or talk about what they like about being the only parent.

Personally, I'm more happy as a single mom then when I was married. I was always the one making ends meet anyways, so now it's easier without one more (very annoying, destructive ) person to support. That and I can raise my daughter how I see fit instead of having to compromise with my now ex's wacked out insecurities. But it is hard in the fact that I rarely get breaks now. Like for instance sometimes my daughter wakes up really early, and now I have no one to trade off with for that. Or that going grocery shopping used to be my time to zone out, but now I have a toddler grabbing stuff from anywhere within reach. But then again, it's better than being forced to watch wrestling.
I really admire you. I can understand you being happier now. I often find men to be bigger babies than actual babies! Im not sure i could cope having a child and a man around. Im pretty sure if i do have a child it will be on my own. Its reassuring to hear about women like yourself who are coping and happy
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hello i have been a single parent for almost 4 years. yes i can do it all and i do it bloody well. the only thing i miss is the extra wage coming in!
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fuck single moms, they got knocked up and were dumb ... no apprecaition for those dirty whores
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Anyway, Hi all. I'm so glad I found this thread. I'm gonna need it!
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ok, i am struggling so much at the moment. my eldest is 15 and life seems to be a constant power struggle between us. any advice?
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