belligerence? how about 'dear kr user, like all rape victims, you're boring as shit. write about something else.' for belligerence?

Meh, I laughed. And it's true, she really is.

is it so hard to realise that there are times when it's better to be kind?

Impossible.

If this was a thread about her being raped, I'd either be nice or at least stay out of it. But it wasn't. It wasn't an issue until she mentioned it, and I wasn't even aware of it until she started using it to accuse me of being a misogynistic shit. I feel entirely justified in not caving in to that.

be fair - you do spend a fair amount of time here joking about what a misogynist you are. if you want to bait people, be prepared to be the bad guy. it seems fair enough to me.

there's also a difference between not caving in and being outright aggressive. making jokes about her experience in other threads? low.