Stay strong Amity

i don't have anything helpful to add. but i think you're doing the right thing. hope you're ok.

if there is any way you can get an earlier appointment, even if its further away, i would do that. and make no condom man pay for all expenses. the least he could do.

i am so sorry youre having to go through this.

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she's an angry bully!

Wow, I really don't know what to say other than I hope it goes as well as something like this possibly can. And yes, I agree with dirtyplotte, your partner in this should (at the very least) shoulder most of the financial responsibility, if not all of it, as he was THAT insistent on condoms not being used.

I've never been through this and I'm sure this won't be at all helpful. But like you, I also know I would have an abortion no question at this point in my life if I fell pregnant, but I also know I would probably fall the **** apart about it anyway.

So all I really wanted to say is that I wish you all the strength you need to navigate this emotionally and get to the other side knowing you made the right choice for you.