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Old 04-24-2009, 08:23 AM
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My neice is thefting for drugs...

Yeah, I just discovered a shit load of my music CDs are missing from the elephant CD stand.

Also, my pen drive has gone from my desk.

I think my neice is having some sort of crisis because a while back I kept finding my crack pipe full of crack resin even though I cleaned it regularly. It was her using the pipe to smoke crack

My neice, also, destroyed two of my laptops so far. A Toshiba P2300 and a Dell 1525, with a Flash BIOS virus. The virus basically fucks up your BIOS so the machine will not boot up any more.

This must be a cry for help, innit?

She recently (well four years ago) gave birth to Kyle the youngest of the family home. She has never been a mother to him though. For instance, ever since she met her boyfriend - she stays with him Fri, Sat, Sun, and comes home monday. Some days she goes from Thurs to Mon,

The boy, Kyle, misses his mother like crazy. He was crying his eyes out today asking if she is coming back - we lie to him and say she is but he knows deep down she is gone for the weekend.

She is an absolute disgrace. A junkie - violent - abusive - and we all put up with it for Kyle. We know, if she moved out Kyle would suffer. He already has to deal with a love triangle between her, the boy friend, and Kyle's father. THe boyfriend is an absolute twat - telling her to always shave kyles head because he is bald and hates people with hair!

Kyle hates the boyfriend and loves his dad. But, my neice always talks bad to Kyle about his father - confusing him further. Some days, she takes him to see his father, then the boyfriend in the same day. This is when Kyle started bed wetting.

He is all mixed up - the poor thing.

He was asked today who he loves the most in the whole wide world - and he said his nanny (my older sister) because she has basically brought Kyle up with mine and my mothers help.

My neice has never really bonded with Kyle at all and rather leads a life of a single girl out on the town doing drugs, getting high, and drinking and fighting on Friday nights. She is, a chav, I am afraid.

And a fucking disgrace. I am ashamed to even talk about her to you but I really am at my wits end here what with her stealing from me.

What I worry about the most is if she steals my subutex. Then I am fucked. Seriously. Because without those pills I am wasted in hell.

Every one treads on eggshells around her because of Kyle. We are all afraid she is going to leave with him and basically lose him to social services...

Because, that is basically what will happen. She has such a short temper with him and is always verbally abusing him. Calling him a girl, for crying and shit like that - and I mean in a very nasty loud way.

But - this is how she is in front of the family - God knows what she would be like alone with the boy. We dread to think...

So, basically, this is my rant right here. I am sick to death of her behaviour - she is on crack - fucked in the head - stealing from me - breaking my laptops - she has cost me £600 so far and if the truth was known she broke my UNIX box and Server too now that I think of it.

Because, the UNIX box was from the fucking 70's man - and built to last. They NEVER break. And this one did, after being a few months in the family home...

She is a sick fuck. Totally disturbed and fucked up and I really do not know what to do. The rest of the family accept her behaviour and refuse to believe she is on crack because they do not want to face reality and lose Kyle by confronting her. I tell my mother my CDs are gone, my Pen Drive is gone, my Laptops are broken, and she just ignores it all and does not put two and two together and realise my neice is behind all of it. I mean, I smoked cannabis in the house for 5 years as a teenager - and she never realised it because she is a fucking idiot like that and I hate to think of my mother this way but she ALWAYS turns a blind eye to things like drug abuse until she HAS to deal with it and then she just passes the buck to some drug therapist.

She even threatened to phone the cops on me last night because I raised my voice after discovering my laptop was fucked. I cannot believe that crap. Rather than deal with it she'd have me arrested and put in the cells overnight threatening me basically to accept that my laptop is fucked and she is not going to do anything about it.

My neice is laughing her ass off too - making snide remarks about 'oh the house is not safe anymore' and shit like that.

She is seriously fucked in the head. I am absolutely furious with her but my hands are tied. I have contacted Dell and am in the process of a return to base repair which will cost God knows how much money to fix her little BIOS virus. We're talking £100 labour and £75 for a new motherboard I imagine...

Before she put the BIOS virus on it - she fucked up the DVD-RW drive some how. I have a replacement DVD-RW drive and it was sealed in bubble wrap - I go to it today and all the bubble wrap has been unraveled so some one has been tampering with the replacement drive!

I cannot fucking believe this shit. I lost all my college work, my Free Password Safe source code, my AUdit Server source code, all my source code for my personal projects - a years worth of Bookmarks and passwords. All my life was wrapped up in that laptop and she comes along and trashes the lot of it.

I am fucking furious as hell.

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Old 04-24-2009, 08:36 AM
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she stole your PEN for drug money? what kind of pen was it?

edit: OH LOL nevermind i re-read it. pen DRIVE. something i don't know about.
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Old 04-24-2009, 08:41 AM
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you can enable her all you want, but in the end her son will suffer
he already is by the sounds of it
how does she support your nephew?
can you get her involved with children and family type services?

if you are all doing right by him and with yourselves, you can surely remove her from the picture for awhile
until she gets her head straight, or whatever

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Old 04-24-2009, 08:47 AM
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Time for intervention?
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Old 04-24-2009, 08:54 AM
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Wow, just wow.... Lock your room and keep important stuff in there at all times? She needs to get involved in a program or something, he could grow up to be a lad with some real issues... I really hope this isn't swept under the carpet. The care & foster system in Britain is atrocious and I understand your fear of him being taken away but y'gotta say something. I think you should go to one of those "friends and family of addicts" meetings that might have come across somethign like this and might have an idea of what to do...
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