Can you confirm that he does not perform fellatio on his mother in the spare room? It sounds like he is using the excuse of 'smoking' as a cover for his and his mothers other unseemly activities, and then he most likely wants to lock lips with you straight after.

I shouldn't even respond to this, this is the most disgusting thing to say right now. GROSS. Yes I can confirm that that is not what happens, to explain; his step father doesn't like the pot around him because he's not allowed to use it because of his work, so he likes it to be kept discrete (which I think is bullshit because we all know why the smoky pot fumes creep out from under the spare bedroom door but anyway..)
and I do go in there sometimes and wow they are doing nothing but chopping up and smoking pot...


Hmm.. well I don't know where you live but I'm in Australia and we have home made bongs with cone pieces in them. . thus we call it a cone.. ?? I don't know much about it myself, I know that there are a few 'cones' in a joint, but when we smoke bongs we smoke one 'cone' at a time.. that make sense?

I do enjoy some party drugs from time to time, LSD, speed and e's. so no i'm not worried about him 'introducing' me to new drugs. I classify pot in a total different category.. we can both do party drugs and then not do them again for months, but pot with him is different, it's an every single day event...

haha I'm not sure if that was sarcasm or not.. I thought it was cool that his mum does acid and bought me e's for xmas! lol.....



and in response to most people who are saying just leave him, not worth it, etc, etc..

I *know* if I asked him to stop he would stop. I was just hoping for more of an insight, but I guess I've been told that yeah, he's basically just high all the time and enjoys being high it makes his life better. For me I don't understand, because being high really doesn't do anything for me, it makes things worse actually..

He is actually a keeper. He wants to marry me & have my children, lol, yes truly...

The thing is we are with each other 24-7. in the beginning it wasn't so often and he was *never* high when we were together, but spending every second of the day together these days (slight exaggeration) doesn't leave much time for him to get stoned *away* from me, so it's just slipped into our lives.

I know if he had to choose he'd choose me over pot. I'd even just be happy if he only did it, like on a social occasions, or when he couldn't sleep or bad shit was going down.. but not every night.

I feel the same about drinking you know, like it's okay to binge it up on the weekend or whatever but to have like 5-6 every night, you start to think.. well.. alocholism??? lol.

I just don't like asking people to change because i love him the way he is, *except* for this one thing. ..

oh yeah and he's my age - early 20's. So kind of young but not THAT young,... but he's done it since he was like 16-17 ....

If he's smoked pot like that since he was 16 or 17, I don't think he'll stop just for you (no offence)

Personally, I don't find that anything he's done sounds that offencive, but that might be because I'm a stoner too?

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well to clarify what my problem with it is...

I don't like the idea of him being 'high' when he's with me. He should be feeling amazing already, because he's in love with me, it should be enough. and I don't want to settle for anything less.. because I feel that amazing when I'm with him, it's better than anything i've ever done.. I think the feeling should be mutual, sure the occasional dabble in this or that is fine for a bit of excitement, but just occasionally.

Do you get what I mean?

Is it just a case of, because I don't want to do it neither should you?