ciggies and spliffs. Now i havent been pregnant and im not assuming that as soon as you are yr addictions stop but it really ****s me off. Im normally the type of person that lets people do their thang as long as its not hurting anyone or themselves and im not very opinionated but this is something that i find disgusting and gross She already has a 3 yr old child (i have only known her for 2 yrs) and when she told me she was expecting another i was pleased for her. She goes for her scan and stuff and yay its a proper healthy baby! but on the phone the other day she was telling me a story about buying papers or something and i asked her "ohh so yr still smoking?" and she replied "yeah....i did the first time and he turned out fine".........

as a friend what do you do?

support her?
tell her off?
yell?
dont say anything and butt out?
bombard her with propaganda?

she isnt an idiot, but right now she is sure acting like one. It is really bad smoking whilst pregnant, isnt it? or am i overeacting?

advice pls.

not give a ****.

**** her and her ****ing downsy asthmatic chil'run.

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listening 2 yeezus on the treadmill i do not get it

i'm pro-choice about both killing and damaging unborn children

btw. do you rly think yelling and propaganda would work? srsly?

cause that would just make me do it more.

and then i really WOULD have healthy babies because i'm THAT ****ing stubborn.

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listening 2 yeezus on the treadmill i do not get it

so its her choice n let her get on with it?

but but but what if the baby does end up tarded? i would think to myself "i could have said something...and this might not have happened" which is a silly thought to have but its a thought nonetheless

arghhh

its rubbish when people yr friends with do stuff you wouldnt do and you end up getting all ~emotional~