what's it like? I'm thinking of going, it's just I don't see the point if all they are going to do is let me talk 'at' them but not offer advice and input...I mean I have plenty of people to talk at if I need to...

It depends. On the type of therapy and the individual therapist.

my psychotherapist is great. she lets me rant and then when i'm done will suggest what she thinks the problem is and then gives me the opportunity to reply. i guess we mutually sort through things which i really like 'cause if she told me straight out what the problem is i would probably completely reject it (most of the time i don't feel like people 'understand' me-- i'm not very good at expressing my feelings.) she's sort of new age-y though.. doesn't like meds and stuff. she's turning into my mentor, haha.

i would suggest going to a therapist who's been recommended so you know what you're getting. if you don't know anyone who sees a therapist then don't settle for the first one you see unless you're comfortable with them/like their style of therapy. i've heard some horror stories.

Yes. This is definately one of those things where there isn't so much a 'right way' to do it, as there is a 'right way for you.' A particular therapist could be wonderful for someone else, but not a good fit with you.

It varies.

I had my last appointment with my ocd therapist on Thursday. It was tear-jerking. I've known her for 2 years and without her I feel like I never would have a) used a public loo b) moved-out of my parents house c) got married... She's wonderful.

At the begining is was tense and very starchy feeling, but having discussed everything over the course of the last 2 years we got quite close. On Thursday we went through my wedding pics and she gave me a good-bye hug and a big smooch on the cheek. She's like a suggorate mum or something. I think it's rare to get like that though and very un-proffessional tbh.