i cant stop feeling like this, i love myself to much, i love how i look, how i talk, how i dance etc, etca nd i know its a good thing
the problem is that because of this love i feel that i cant love anyone else but me.
i mean for example, im trying to get this guy, i really like him, really do, he is the first guy that complete every thing i want in a man, but sometimes i get this toughts like what if he doesnt want to be my boyfriend? what if he doesnt want me anymore? and i just dont give a shit because i have myself!
but i dont wanna feel that, its really weird, because i know its a healthy thing to have someone to love, a boyfriend. anyway im not going to give up on him, im gonna try and try cuz you never know what you have until you lost it. butttt my nature is like dont have any remorse! dont give a shit, etc
i dont know its very strange.
what do you think?
anyone feeling like this?

i don't think it's unhealthy to be unbothered if someone doesn't like you? i love myself loads. i'm always like, if they don't want me anymore - oh well. i love me! someone else will come along who will. or they won't. who cares.

i always think of other people, particularly boyfriends, as being a pleasure rather than a necessity, so if they just don't want me i don't NEED them around, i'll just look for pleasure elsewhere, or with someone else.

hey that is a good philosophy!! thanx!

i need it to post again to thank you again!
i was thinking about it, smoking a ciggie, drinkin a coffee, and realize that you are totally right.

I agree with Raeeka even though I find it very difficult to think like that.

Society makes everyone feel like the HAVE to have another half. I know it's like that with me. Almost everyone my age is in a serious relationship. It's ridiculous because they're so young and haven't even found their own identity yet and they haven't seen the world yet but of course even if they get the chance to go somewhere (while studying or so) they can't because of their bf or gf....

Sometimes I really love myself and other times not so much... But i feel it's important to spend a lot of time being alone as well because you are confronted with your own existence which forces you to think about life and what is important to you. It's important to find yourself and to learn to understand yourself that way.

I feel like so many people I know are afraid of being alone (= not in a relationship, but also just spending a lot of time in their house or room by themselves). It's like they always want to surround themselves with other people or be with their partner because then they won't have to deal with the difficult questions of life.