i am 22 having my 2nd abortion. i feel weird about it and its taken me up to 10 weeks to realize i am really not capable of becoming a mother. i am too self centered and drug dependant.

has anyone else ever had similare issues?

Sounds like you're incapable of using birth control too.

ew.. mean. she's doing the right thing if she really doesn't feel like she can be a proper mother.

Yes. I think you should do what feels right, but the maternal instink always kicks in & says "have it". Ignore that. PM me if you want, I've been there.

I agree with that.. I know not a whole lot of people will but really if you don't think you are at the best point you can be to give a kid what it needs to survive in the world it could just be cruel to have a baby.... not to ention the ract that there could be serious birth defects from drugs use blah blah blah which means even more care that the child would need so you are doing the right thing.. I haven't been there myself though so I don't know if I have any right to be saying what I am