I find laughing overrated.
It's great when you really actually laugh, and sometimes it's good to laugh to show someone you think something is funny, even if you didnt really have to laugh.
But people are so crazy when it comes to laughing. Some people laugh at everything, and some people laugh REALLY loudly at something they ´would just giggle at, but they don't even realise themselves theyre only doing it as a social 'this-is-funny-i-have-to-screeeeam-HAHAHA-thing'.
It drives me MAD. It's the worst at the movies, i hate seing comedies, there is ALWAYS someone who laughs extremely loud at every thing thats supposed to be funny, and if I'd HAVE to laugh like that, i wouldnt do it for like 3 seconds, if somethings THAT funny you'd be laughing for a while, not just one scream than back to normal. And you can alsays keep yourself from laughing loudly. Out of respect, you should.
Last time I was at the movies there was a girl like that, and the one sitting next to her laughed even more that she did. BUT she didn't make much of a sound at all.
Ok I'm ranting.
But these things get to me. But people that tend to fake laugh put me off so much. But everyone seems to not realise and like them for it? and hate me because I'm not like that?
Just ****ing RELAX. It's better to talk about something real that everyone can engage a bit in, than sit around a table pretending to care about something really stupid.
I like serious people. Not serious as in not amused by anything, but serious as in realising some things are just caused by people actually being TENSE.
I think serious people are better in the end at talking about silly things, cause theyre more open anyways.
And when youre with a serious, down to earth person thats feeling nice and enjoying the moment - it makes you feel faar better that the ones that always pretend to feel that way.
Ok yes so more on topic, you'll just make freinds you don't like, at first you want friends because, well you don't have many, then when you get to know then theyll just bother you.
I'm the same, don't have much friends and many of the ones I have annoy me but I accept it, I try to just spend time with people who don't annoy me instead of people with issues or that I have issues with, it's not worth it to me.
I'm confident I'll make friends more like me in the future and I can't be very bothered when I slip away from people now, I'ts for this reason and i wont change.
So yeah like people said just try to relaxe and be yourself and people who aprecciate those qualitys will be the ones who end up liking you and be the ones you like.