does any one know any home remedies to get fluid out of your ears? i just had a sinus infection and it cleared up but now there is fluid in my right ear and i dont want it to sit there and cause another infection.

ears: just flap 'em.

I'm not sure if this is recommendable to your individual problem, but have you ever heard of ear candling? A couple weeks ago, I came across "ear candles" in a store, and I asked the assistant what they were (I first thought they might have been candles made out of earwax and was like wtf). She told me that they are used to remove extra build-up in your ears - wax, toxins, unidentified liquids, etc. Apparantly it involved lighting the wick of the candle and placing the other end in your ear.
Did a doctor treat you for your sinus infection? Ideally, you should consult him/her about removing excess fluids. It may not even be recommended to go tampering with your ears after an infection. If you treated the infection yourself, ask a pharmacist for advise instead.