oh god another love advice thread!

caca · #1 08-13-2006, 10:51 AM

sorry guys . but yes this is another i need your advice thread. I do apologise: )

Ok I meet this guy a few months ago and my friends and i have been hanging out with him and his friends. Anyways i fancy him . I didn't say anything about it. i just liked him from afar.
one nite at a party i drank an awful lot and i put my arm around him and we ended up sleepin in the same bed but nothing happened. i was so embrassed the next day cos i never did that before- making the first move. So anyways a few weeks past and i was kinda sad cos nothing ever happened. til last weekend we went to a party and i was very drunk and so was he. We ended up making out for quite awhile. We both have not mentioned it since. Anyways this weekend i sent him a drunking text basically saying good nite but he never replied . we all meet up the next nite but again we didn't talk about it cos there were lots of people around.
I don't think he likes me cos if he did he would have text me back etc I need some advice am i making a complete fool of myself?? Please give me some advice.

*lovehearts* · #2 08-13-2006, 10:53 AM

stop getting drunk maybe

caca · #3 08-13-2006, 10:58 AM

: ) maybe your right on that one

discolexy · #4 08-13-2006, 11:07 AM

WELL just cos he didn't text you back doesn't mean he doesn't like you
maybe your text didn't go through
maybe he didn't have credit.
maybe he only got the message really late and thought you'd be asleep and didn't wnat to wake you
etc etc

just relax. don't get heavy or anything, see what happens. if you do make out with him again, maybe after you can ask him if he wants to hang out somewhere again or something. but please for god's sake relax. just let things develop

caca · #5 08-13-2006, 11:08 AM

lol alcohol can really confuse things but apart from that i really need to ehar someone elses point of view about this situation cos mine is clearly clouded .