apart from the obvious alternative of no dress at all. the strongest impression for me is a person's clothes. more than the shape of their body. a well-dressed woman makes me bubble.

my question for you is, what would you qualify as "sexy dress"? if you saw your dream date walking along, what style clothing would he/she/it be wearing? bold colours? muted colours? textures? logos? short cut? long cut? tattoos? perfumes? styled hair?

what is it that makes you drool, or vice versa, turns you off.

to me this


is a thousand times sexier than this (which i incidentally find as sexy as a case of herpes)


as for guys i think effortless is sexy. not trying too hard nor being too into coiffing or whatev. cologne is generally a no but it's a case by case. anyone who's trying to hard will get a pass, but there are certain things i'll overlook if everything else is on the money. jeans and a tshirt is fine if you got mojo; a hugo boss suit means nada if ain't got that swing.

I like tamed hair, a tight-fitting interesting t-shirt, a nice pair of dark jeans, a classy pair of shoes, a little confidence, and some cologne--not on overload, but enough to linger on my pillows after he's left, and i can be reminded of him & his scent.
I'm not that hard to please?

aside for dark haired guys preferances, I like them to have dark adjusted jeans. not exactly adjusted but icant stand the whole I-shat-my-pants look. I like a fit tshirt as well. black I picture it or red. a belt and nice shoes. I don't like the whole spikey hair with gel hair. i kind of like the emo fringe looks when it comes to hair on guys...yeah i know...or messy
i also find this sexy he could win my heart

and if i see what I call an attractive guy in a baby pink t shirt, he seems even more attractive to me.

Slightly off topic but seriously a hell of a lot of people don't know how to dress to fit their body type. Saying this i just learned a matter of months ago . . . but it still annoys me!