OK, my friend gave me her myspace password a month or so ago and I was bored one day and I logged in to her account and read her PMs. Most of them were pretty uneventful but I DID manage to come across some where she and a mutual friend were talking about me. They were basically saying that I wasn't as "cool" as they thought I was, & the more they get to know me, the "less cooler" I've become. Oh well, the feeling was mutual b/c we haven't been talking much in the past couple of months. What REALLY bothered me is that she (the friend) said that when she is around me, she feels as if she has to "act girlier". Wtf. I hate people who have to put on some facade, whether they're around me or not.

By her acting "girlier" she's quite freaky, she does webcam shows and has been paid to pee on people, she sells her used panties/vibrators on the internet, stuff like that. So when she's with me, she feels as if she has to censor her speech or not talk about her "escapades".

In the PM, she wrote something like, "I feel as if I have to up my girly side when I'm around her. She likes freakin DIOR for christs sake. She is cool to hang out sometimes, but not every week." I mean, shit, I may like Dior & pink stuff but you sell your crusty underwear on the internet & have been paid to pee on people. nasty bitch.

It seems since I read those PMs, the dynamic of our friendship has changed and everything she does annoys the hell out of me. She asks me if I want to do webcam shows (uh, no) or get "paid" to relieve myself on someone (hell no) for extra cash. She just disgusts me now.

Do I have a reason to be upset? Should I confront her? I was snooping after all. Maybe I shouldnt have snooped, but I'm glad I did. I know how she really feels.

you sound like you take things much too seriously and, quite frankly, like a judgmental little bitch.

no, i dont think you should say anything. its not that serious.

myspace ruins ppl's lives.

no good comes from snooping.

Snooping is bad.

If these are your friends maybe you should take it as some constructive criticism and not say anything to them since you really shouldn't have been in there. Altghough ur friend gave you the password maybe it was her way of trying to tell you something like you need to work on some of the things that they mentioned OR maybe they're fucking with you trying to tell you not to be a snoop.