| I've been in long distance relationships, but I have to say that I've never been the one that was going to compromise everything. They were going to move for me.
Right now my friend is having a tough time because his girlfriend is a very intelligent, driven girl who is looking at applying to several graduate schools on the east coast meaning that he has to move to be near her. She doesn't want him to make any life decisions based on her. And hey, I guess I get it. She'd feel responsible if the move doesn't work out and he doesn't find what he is looking for where she is--but they're together and supposedly in love. If it doesn't matter much to him what grad school he goes to and it means the world to her where she goes to...isn't that kind of a no brainer? I fear that she doesn't love him as much as he does. In which case, this leading him on is extremely cruel. I say it's better to make the move and if things don't work out then it's better to find out now. |