...you just had sex with your boyfriend and he told you:

"I was thinking... some of my friends tell me they can´t live without sex, they can´t take it when they don´t have sex in a long time, but I´m not like that...If I have to say what´s my greatest pleasure I wouldn´t say fucking, I´d say eating, or sleeping...I mean, sex is overrated..."

Considering he hasn´t had any other experiences with women since I was his first and we´ve just had sex, I think that means he isn´t happy with me in that aspect of our relationship. I asked him about that, and if he wanted me to do things differently, but he told me I misunderstood what he said, that he was just saying sex is something he likes a lot, but it isn´t the first thing in his life, which I can understand, but I still think he is not happy with me.

I´m hurt and I don´t know what to do different because he won´t tell me what he needs, he insists he didn´t mean he was unhappy with the sex we have. Should I just forget about it? Am I overreacting or should I feel bad about this?

I would talk more in depth with him about it. in the meantime however, deprive him. if he doesn't "need" sex, then why not?

i foresee a drought coming

I think you are overreacting.
I don't really enjoy sex all that tremendous much, but I still love my partner unconditionally and wouldn't change a thing about him (including his "technique" or whatever!).
I can understand why you would be hurt, but I don't think he said it to hurt you. I think he was saying it in a positive way and he meant it as a good thing. It's just a bit of static in communication I think. He perhaps didn't express himself as eloquently as he could have.

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i think you're over-reacting too

he insisted he didn't mean he was unhappy with you, didn't he?

i'd consider myself lucky if i were you!

do you really want a guy for whom sex is the most important thing in life?

guys like that are usually dicks...


i'm so glad i'm not a guy

it'd drive me nuts to make an off-hand comment and have it misconstrued by a woman

you need to chill out

Exactly. "Misconstrued" is exactly the word I was thinking for but could not think of.

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The greatest asset they all have is themselves. And yet does anybody promote that to them? Does anybody tell them that they are the greatest asset they have? Or are they steered to idol worship? Are they moved, are they motivated, are they inspired to look at the president or any politician as their only salvation? If they are, it's just a shame.