I was looking back at some of my relationships and realized 3 guys ive dated ive had only a really strong connection

1st boyfriend
Physical connection
Emotional connectoin
Intellectual connection

-He was my 1st boyfriend and is the only guy Ive ever connected with so strongly, it was special and I know it wouldve been able to work for a couple of years but it didnt work out that way-

4th boyfriend (1st really serious boyfriend)

physical connection
emotoinal connection
-unfortunatly no intellectual connection wich is why it wouldnt have been able to move any further

6th boyfriend
Me/him dating on/off these past 2 years and I havent really been ready to be in a relationsihp, we're mostly just good friends
We have an amazing Intellectual connection, but no physical and no emotional so there isnt enough to build something on.

Ive also dated some guys in betwqeen that were just really cool and just really sweet guys, they were fun at the time.

But Ive always wanted to find a guy I can really connect with again, my best friend just recently found a guy she's connected with and she hasnt been this excited about a guy since 6 years ago.

So how many people that youve dated have you REALLY connected with? On all levels-physical/intellectual/emotional.

I figure the guy Ive only ever conneted with was freshman year of high school, almost 4 years ago....s oat this point its going into Junior year of college..I would just really love to meet another guy I can just connect with on all levels, just have it "click" and really understand eachother. Im going to start college so I dont know, maybe i'll meet a guy around there, but i doubt it.

What have your experiences been?

0Crash

looking back at my relationships history, i realize i only had a connection with 3 guys i've dated

My Childhood sweetheart (because we grew up together, why else. ) and my boyfriend at the moment (We begun as best friends and things led on from there.. so he is like my best friend but a lover at the same time. We just understand each other so well.) And also my ex, who I still have a pretty deep connection with but it must be ignored.

My fist has connected with most of their faces.

My 1st boyfrind, who i was with for 4 years.. He's still my best friend now, we grew up together.

My 2nd boyfriend, our relationship was a trainwreck from start to finish. It felt like when we were together we could do anything, it felt like it was me and him against the world and i felt i connected with him strongly on all levels, unfortunatly he was too fucked in the head to be with me, and did not treat me right at all, on so many levels.

And i've only had 2 lol!