not really sure why i'm posting about this but a- need to get it off my chest and b- would just like some opinions on the situation. it's quite weird.

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i have a boyfriend, all is fine. we get on, love being with him, etc. we seem very compatible. only thing is he never talks about how he feels except 'i'm pissed off' or whatever and never tells me how he feels about me or anything. basically he's just very distant. but he's still a lot less distant with me than anyone else.
right that's summed up our relationship.

anyway we have this really good friend who just gets me on a whole different level. he loves the same music as me and i can talk to him so easily about everything/anything. he's brilliant, but never thought about him in any way other than friend til i've been having these dreams. the past five nights i've dreamt about him. my boyfriend's been in the dream at some point too, but i don't really have any interest in him. in the dream i feel completely in love with our friend, and i really feel it intensely. and in all of them i've ended up kissing him and it feels absolutely amazing to the point where i wake up and my heart actually sort of aches.

what the fuck is going on. known him for a few months and i've never found him particularly attractive. he is but i just haven't. and i've seen him once since then and i just keep getting a huge urge to kiss him. it's fucked up.

please give me some opinions and stuff on what i should do or whether i should just do nothing and ignore it. but must understand when i see him now i just wanna kiss him SO much cos of how intense and amazing it feels in the dream. i wouldn't do it cos it'd be wrong but it's so hard.

on a conscious level do u have feelings for ur friend?
remember dreams are not real but that they are projections from our subconscious.. maybe subconsciously u actually love ur friend and thru dreams its the only way for your mind to fully process that...

i didn't before but i do now but it sort of feels like it's just due to the intensity of how i felt in the dream

have u looked at ur friend in this way before the dreams?

not really. sort of look at every guy who i really like as a person in that way but never considered it more than that