Originally Posted by clovethee
yes it is true. no one wnats to hear a bunch of heavy **** right off the bat either. i happen to be a good interview and a good date, however, after i feel like i want to run away after i am offered the job/raltionship.
i think if the conversation naturally grows it doesnt really matter when it is. but i am of the let em see who i am IDGAF type of person, so...
and i never dated. i think maybe if it is an actual stranger, than yeah, you hold back bc who the **** are THEY.
anyways, i just wanted to say, blackmilk, that if i were to have to ENDURE a date with you, that if you brought up things that you have some energy for (re: obsessive over) like scotch and go into detail, then i think thats a good weeding out process. either they are gonna dig you, or they are gonna get bored/belittle you, eventually.
i tried the glenfiddich tonight. only the 12 year, but i like it. my husband thinks its gross. i tried it with an ice cube mainly bc room temp here is ridiculous (high 70's - low 80's. no ac). its nice. fruit and honey and creamy.
so thanks for the obsession you shared.