i made a thread about this topic before kr went down.

i met this guy and i have slept at his place twice. the third time i kinda understood that he doesn´t want a relationship. he only wants to have sex. but he said that he has to have feelings for the girl he has sex with, so i guess he feels sth for me?

so, the third time i went to his place, i told him no, i said i couldn´t have sex without being sure about my feelings. so he said: ok, let´s forget about the whole thing. so we drank some tea and watched tv and then i left.
before i left i told him to come to the pub the next day. and he said: you really want me to? you don´t wanna be alone with yr girlfriends?
and i said NO I really want you to come.

so he and his friend came. and i was in a bad mood and i didn´t talk to him during the time he was there.

and it´s really up to me now. i like him and i could probably have sex with him. i´m moving to greece in july so a relationship isn´t even crossing my mind.

what to do? do you think he thinks i´m crazy if i tell him i like him and that i wanna see him again? is he mad because i behaved bad at the pub?

i can´t stop thinking about it, give me some advice PLEASE

from past experance i cant have sex with someone and not want a relationship. Iv only slept with 3 guys and one i was in a relationship with, the other one i WANTED a relationship with and the 3rd is my boyfriend now. I would say dont give in to him and just have sex. I realise you dont want a relationship either so whats the point in having sex when it means so much? it really is up to you but he might of just told you he has to have feelings for anyone he sleeps with to get you in the sack, but i dont know him so only really you know!

i sent him a sms earlier. he said he misses his old girlfriend too much, and he only wants us to be friends.
i´m not sad but not happy either.

end of the story

sorry doll.
its probably for the best though. Go out and find someone who will care for you as much as you care for them im sure ul find some hot greek guy

thanks ashley