Originally Posted by barkstonwill
If you haven't had sex with the new guy yet, go ahead and do it.
Life only happens once and more importantly, its not like its really that bad a thing to do in the world we live in. Most people over the age of 25 (at this point) have either cheated on someone at some point, gotten divorced at some point, or thought very long and hard about it and only been stopped by thinking of the children or some other nonsense.
I don't want to! I don't really like him. If what you say is true then it makes me feel sad about the world.
geek and gelf: noooooooooo definitely not I really won't, really really really, he is like my boy twin! but I am worried that's what he will think, I suspect I might feel the same in his position.
kesh is probably right. If he had done that I would have felt better, but then, I probably shouldn't be allowed to feel better, because I am a massive ***** who doesn't deserve someone as nice as him. I am feeling very penitent; I spent today ordering his birthday present for next month and doing designs for his card.
Thanks Black Mambo for your thoughtful post. You are a good agony aunt.