You know, It really bugs me how much the word Love has been desencatisd. And it pisses me off that someone people can actually say they love everyone. Or like...just use the word so freely. It just makes it less meaningful.

Its just, love is much more personal then just having compassion for someone. or just "oh i gots butterflies in my tummer when hes/shes around! i must love him/her!".Love is a partnership through life, its not a "oh i like you you like me were in loove" or something corny like that. I don't think you truly love someone until your around them, and you don't have the butterflies 24/7 and you are just content with the person your with and will die for them. yeah may sound cliche, but, seriousely. "Real Love is forever", say me and taryn's Promiss rings hehe... and its the truth. If you Truly love someone, you won't break up with them cause there having a good time with another girl/guy, or break up with them cause they get up set over something you find pointless and you think there just retarded for geting upset over it. Thats not love at all. Love it "my relationship is more inportent then that..." cause being right/ being the 100% center of atention/ or anything like that, is no reason to break up.

And if you are in a relationship, and want to wait foring saying "I love you" untill you really mean it, i respect you for it.

But yeah, just kinda ranting about it, cause it drives me nuts when people go like "yeah...i love chester but i might break up with him cause Bret is sooo hoottt" makes me wanna slap them. lol.

I don't expect much responces from this but yeah, kinda felt like spreading my thoughts a lil bit on it.

tell me what yeah guys think!

- Matt

lmfao.


I can see where your coming from. But. How are you to judge what other people view as love?

Love is made into this big commercial poster. But it is also a subjective, personal thing as well..Im sure almost everything can be subjective

I agree that it's overused to some extent, like by 13 year olds who think they're "in love" because they've been together two whole weeks. But I also think people overanalyze it and sometimes give the word too much power. Really, you feel how you feel, and whether it's "like" or "love" or "infatuation" is just a label. You feel how you feel regardless of what you call it, and who defines the line at which you are qualified to say you "love" someone? If you're on the same page in the relationship, and saying it makes you happy, go ahead and say it. I think it's a bit silly to sit around wondering whether you "love" someone or just like them a lot, like some people seem to do. You just feel how you feel, it's not a big mystery, call it what you want. Everyone's definitions of love are different and it's a different emotional experience for everyone so there's not really any way to determine what makes you "in love."

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