Ok most of you guys know me as the insane girl whose dated the same guy for four years, broke into his emails, found questionable things, constantly doubts him, etc. I still haven't "caught" him cheating but my suspicions just won't fade away and I am constantly in turmoil with my lack of trust. I have finally accepted I am never going to trust him or be happy and I know I need to end things. And I am very scared to do that. Do you have any ideas or suggestions on what to do and how to handle this?

is it that he isnt trustable or is it just your insecure? Thats what happened with me and my ex... i never gave him any reason to doubt me but he was so insecure of himself that he thought i was out cheating, i couldnt even go on the net without him thinking i was talking to other people.
When we split i was distrought ... more so because i hadnt done anything wrong but because of his doubts i had to end it because our realtionship was like a prison. We finished in the Feb, he done some really nasty things ... and we ended up "seeing" eachother about 2 months after,and then we decided it was best if we didnt see eachother again as my family would never accept him back nor my friends. So wev been apart a couple of months and still to this day i miss him but i know it would just never work. At first i couldnt imagin my life without him as we were together every day and i felt like i had killed off half of myself because he just wasnt there... but you learn to get on with it and i just remind myself why he is now an ex. I have bad days and good days but really if you were inlove with that person your always going to miss them in one way or another.
Dont know if that helped. x

you could try having a conversation

You need to deal with this from the source, which is yourself. If your bf gives no reason for you to actually know for sure he's cheating, and this paranoia is all coming from yourself, there's nothing to stop you being this way in future with other guys. No point in sacking one guy just to go on and do the same with the next.

I think you might need to figure out a way to work on yourself before you do anything drastic. Unless you genuinely think you would be better off alone for your own sanity? But for how long? Forever? That can't be great.

if you dont have trust, then all you have is sex and if the sex isnt good then you have nothing.