not really. we're apart in general anyway, so him being in the military doesn't make a huge difference. i just think i should be a little bit more concerned about THAT and about him and this crappy thing he's having to do, like a normal girlfriend should... rather than, y'know, getting all stupidly dreamy over exes and the like.

Someone's probably already suggested this, I haven't read the whole thread b/c pages take a long time to load on my phone, but perhaps you're projecting (for want of a better word-i'm not a psychologist) your attraction/love/and so on for your man in greece onto a man who's closer to home? Of course I also don't know your history with the ex, this is just an outside view on something that I could imagine happening to me, and how it might be if it did happen to me. Kind of like your subconscious is trying to make the long distance thing less painful by making you want a more convenient relationship. Perhaps? Hope this doesn't sound like I'm trivialising your crush on your ex, it might be that you two could get back together and have a great relationship, but my instinct is to advise careful thought when you've put so much effort into your current relationship. Hope you're ok. Don't rush anything.

lol.

Was just reading back over some threads I've made and stumbled across this little gem.

Good one.



Funnily enough, ex bf hasn't been on my mind a whole lot lately. Mainly b/c all of my emotional energy has been tied up in thoughts of HOLY SHIT. EVERYTHING'S FALLING APART. RESCUE RESCUE RESCUE.

I'm very likely going to be single soon. And when I eventually get over Greek dude, however many many months that's going to take, I can see myself being a dick and pursuing the ex and I'm not going to like myself for it. It'd be an insane thing to do, but I am obviously insane.



Realistically speaking, though. I miss his friendship and I think if I had that there wouldn't be so much of an element of romance in how I feel about him. I'm beginning to see that.

But as it happens, neither dude is in touch with me now so whatthefuckever.