Long distance relationship thread

[Black Mambo]

It's good that you're rediscovering some excitement about seeing him again. That's something that tended to happen with me too. I'd go for months in a state approaching indifference but when the date approached I'd find myself getting a bit excited, and then seeing them again brought everything back to normal.


Well after complaining that I won't see bf for a year, it seems like we may possibly see each other in Dec/Jan, which is still ages away but nowhere near as bad. So I'm getting all excited again about making plans and ****, even though I don't even know for sure yet if he will be able to get the time from work.

I'm still pretty amazed that I am putting myself through this again.

[shellyagal]

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[sssh]

oh my GOD ONE WEEK TODAY

This is how I am feeling. I've never really worked out what the lyrics are about, but mostly the jolly little tune and colourful video:

islands

Hooray Black Mambo! It'll all be fine! & shellagal, thanks for your wonderful advice, I'll remember that.

[sssh]

so...he's home!

He got back on Sunday at 6 in the morning and I was there at the airport with his dad, to surprise him. It was really nice, except that I was praying he wouldn't give me a big squeezy hug because the combination of tiredness and car sickness had made me a bit nauseous. Luckily he didn't, but when his dad stopped about five minutes from Heathrow to get petrol I had to run out of the car to throw up in the service station toilets. Romantic. I also had mysterious tummyache for most of the time I was at his house, which was annoying because I had very carefully planned exactly how it was going to be when I saw him again, and neither car sickness nor tummyache was part of the plan.

Once he told me to stop worrying about things not being exactly as I had imagined, it was fine. I just got back to York today and feel in a bit of a daze, I can't believe he's going to be in England now for the foreseeable future, it seems too good to be true. I am seeing him next Wednesday before we go to Green Man with a big group of friends, and on the Sunday we will have been going out for a year and a half!

Thanks for the encouragement and advice everyone I hope all your long distance relationships are going well.

[cantankerous]

Originally Posted by sssh

because I had very carefully planned exactly how it was going to be when I saw him again, and neither car sickness nor tummyache was part of the plan.

what does this mean, exactly?