Haha, that pic is lol.
Idk, they say that absence makes the heart grow fonder and everything but I tended to find the opposite in my last LDR. With enough distance and time I'd forget the things that made me like that guy and everything. But I'd see him and I'd remember again.
Sort of weird to talk about it so I'll stop there.
Anyway, maybe you should
try to arrange something at a neutral place just in case, since you're feeling so concerned about it? But I get the feeling your concerns will go away when you see him.
I assume he intends to lose weight again at some point? In any case, I don't think it's quite enough extra poundage to render him suddenly hideously unattractive if he was attractive before...
As for my LDR of the present, visitations came and went (fellow came to Scotland) and were so incredibly wonderful. But now I'm looking at as much as a year of not seeing fellow due to my schedule of uni. It's kind of depressing to really think about it. But I'm excited to make plans to see him again.
Things are still kinda new so I'm all girly and sappy and I love the feeling.
I haven't felt so much this way ever before, and I haven't felt anything like it in a long time, so it's pretty exciting.
I have to say, when I look back at previous LDR and recall how we intended things to pan out for the future... even though I was hopeful about it, I always remember how I used to refer to it in terms of IF, and would refer to the possibility of breaking up as a matter of WHEN. I think that says everything about how I viewed the outlook of that situation, really.
And the difference now, although I grant you my head is clouded by "honeymoon stage" romantic notions and flowery happy ****, I actually believe that fellow and I will end up together after all of this long distance bull****. I really believe that.
Maybe I'm going to regret writing that at some stage but I find it hard to imagine.