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Old 06-20-2009, 02:42 PM
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Unhappy long distance issue :(



Okay, so my boyfriend had to move many hours away several months ago to stay with his family until he can get on his own two feet. At first, the only types of emotions I felt about this were of course sadness, loneliness, missing him, all of those. But now I've got a problem. A few days ago, I woke up completely angry. Angry that I've been left behind. I feel abandoned. But I don't feel like it's fair at all for me to be upset like that. He's doing what he can so we can eventually move in together, as am I. But he's in a new city far away from everything, and here I am in the same place as before he left, being forced to go to all the same places we went and had amazing times at, even just the grocery stores. It's almost like torture! I'm walking around in all of these memories trying to keep myself busy and failing miserably, and I don't know what to do. I feel so guilty for being angry that he left me here, but I don't know what to do about it. I can't go tell him that I feel this way, because he hasn't done anything wrong. He's doing the best he can.

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Old 06-20-2009, 04:10 PM
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shouldent you really be asking WHY he's moved far away to his parents to get back on his two feet? seems like hes just used it as a way to dump you is all
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Old 06-20-2009, 04:13 PM
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what age are you both?

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Old 06-20-2009, 04:14 PM
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I have had that problem when my boyfriend is away. Because we met in the same city everywhere I went, I was constantly being reminded of places we'd been and things we'd done together. And I got angry with him for being away and for being somewhere we'd not been together so he didn't have to have all the reminders. I am not great in LDRs. Which is unfortunate since I'm currently away from my boyfriend for up to 6 months of the year in the week times.
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**** I hate people who make accounts for advice. THIS IS ****TY RADIO, YOU ****TARD, we're not Oprah and we're not going to solve your problems.

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