the guy that i've been seeing as a few really good friends and i've quickly become friends with them all but one. in fact, they all love hanging with me and call me on their own to do stuff without the boy.

he has one friend whom i have never really been close to but always was friendly, we even met for lunch a few times on our own and have hung out alone. he has recently decided that he doesn't like me and has been very rude to me and then decides to not go anywhere that i was to be - on purpose. i don't have an issue if he doesn't like me....fair enough, but he's just become plain rude and it's making it difficult for our friends to plan things. they now ask me first and if i can't make it they'll invite him. i find allthis really odd as there are people i don't like but if in a group setting, i just smile and nod and play nice. i don't have time for games.

he's also the type of guy who doesn't have many friends and passes judgement on everyone really quickly. he hates most of the boys other friends too.

well, he decided today, after over 5 months of his bull**** that he wants to try to make ammends with me. however, he doesn't come to me....he goes through others.

i don't really care to be his friend but i do want things to be easier for our group of friends.

do i go and chat and play nice or do i do what i want to do....punch him in the face and let him be the odd one out all the time?

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Is anyone in your group bothered by any of this? I mean do they care if the two of you get along or not?

yeah, it's totally changed the dynamic.

they have to plan around who to invite to things.

he also said he wouldn't go to the boys bday party if i was there.

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If I were you I'd want to punch him in the face too! Though for your friends sake it might be better to play nice for now.

yeah, i know.

i really want to punch him though!

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