i'm seeing this 45 year old guy. he is really hot. he is a model and he used to be a musician. none of my friends thinks it's weird because he is pretty attractive for 45 but he does have grey hair which i love, but when we go out people always stare, like it's crazy or something. is it? i'm 21, and still get carded for cigarettes sometimes but i don't look like a 12 year old.

who else has dated someone way way older than them?

does he have white pubes and saggy balls?

yeah i really can't even picture. or i gag.

basically if you're older than 30 and anything younger than 6months from me you are not going to work.

my exboyfriend was tapping a 18 year old when he was 24. and i gagged just from that.

ive never dated anyone over 30, even when i was in my 30's, until i was with my husband so long he got old. im 39 and my husband is 33.

when i was 18 i dated a 29 year old. he was a hot german rice university architecture student. he made me crazy with evil geek lust. he's now a professor of architecture. thats the biggest age difference. by age 26, i was exclusively dating younger guys.

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I think that lifting a barbell is probably the single most important thing that women can do to improve their body image. Lifting heavy and feeling stronger and seeing how muscle mass changes your body is a phenomenal experience. - Tamara Cohen

When I was eighteen my boyfriend was thirty. He was thin and dark haired and pale skinned and I liked the way his Irish voice said my name.

I was with him on and off for two years.

He was an alcoholic, tortured soul, wannabe writer working for an ad agency with sexual performance issues.

I ****ing adored him.